hey im 13 and ive been masturbating for a little less than a year. latley i found myself thinking of guys when i do, and looking at gay porno. I like girls and i would never go out with or hae sex w/ a guy but i really dont want to be bi at all. is this normal? do u have tips on stopping myself?
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Might be bi
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you are what you are.........at 13 I didn't know who or what i was....so relax.......enjoy the feelings.......a lot of people fantasise about having sex with someone of the same sex........I know I do......but that doesn't mean I am going to go and have a lesbian affair! What your going through is in my eyes perfectly normal, tho I guess the other guys on here will be able to tell you better than me.....
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Yeah, totally normal. Especially at your age during puberty, I would say most guys have had at least some bisexual thoughts of some kind. This is a time for exploring yourself and finding out what you like and don't like. You may even go in phases during puberty where one moment you're thinking mostly gay thoughts, and the next moment you're thinking all gay thoughts are disgusting, and then you're completely into girls. Don't worry about it - its all normal, and all the other boys your age are going through the same thing, although most won't talk about it.
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I am bi. And I'm fine with it. I do not think that having bi fantacies means you're bi. Unless you can do the deed with a same sex partner I don't think you're bi/gay.
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I'm also bi and fine with it.... Well i'm 14 now but when I was 12/13 I wasn't ok with it but then I just said "Hey this is who I am so I'll deal" I came out and everything is still the same, of course you have a few friends that take a while to deal with it but they will if they are true friends.Also, you might not be bi... you might just be confused right now and don't know what you want to be. But if you are bi, thats fine , be ok with it
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I'm 14 and have been going through the same thing for a couple of weeks.
I sometimes masturbate to gay porn but don't EVER want to actually do anything sexual with a guy in real life. -
I'm 13 too and think about guys a lot also. I would be just fine masturbating with another guy, infact, I want to.
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you should it's fun