my best friend in the world recently confided to me that she thought she might be bisexual. i immediately told her that i accepted her no matter what. she began to tell me why she thought she was bisexual... it summed up to "i have a boyfriend and i've had a boyfriend for most of my life. i love my boyfriend and i defnitely like men. i've recently been having lesbian fantasies about some of my friends. does this mean i'm bi?" i have a few friends who are bi and after asking them about it, one said she knew her whole life, and others said they found out from experiances. she basically wants to know if a fantasy means she's bisexual. any advice?
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Bisexual?
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no ur not bi untel you constantly have sex w/ girls. i have fantasies about gay blow jobs, but its never happened.
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That's normal to think about people of the same sex. Especially when in the teens.
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I don't think that your sentence really structured the whole "Bi" thing, sure i am Bi, I had feelings for a lot of guys when i was younger, i felt confirmed i was when i did have sex with a guy. And to constantly do it, i don't think that sums it up really.
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I'm in total agreement with qux69, unless you actually do the deed, you can't say. I know God knows how many girls who claim to be bi just because they've kissed another girl.
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If you are bi or gay or even think that you are-how can you i guess "reverse" it? I think i might be bi but i have stronger feeling for boys than i do girls-i always have but never wanted to. i have never told anyone this b/c i always thought that maybe i can reverse it before they find out. I am curently 15-and have had MANY gf's. so is there a way to reverse this sexuality-i have always thought that when i get older that i will go to my docter and ask for male hormone pills or something to reverse this.i dont know??!?! any thoughts?
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PLEASE!! any thoughts??????
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I reckon what your going through is entirley normal 'caution'Fantasies about the same sex are common - My fantasies often include women amongst other things..... and i'm 33 LOL Why would you be so desperate to change things......if you are Bi, then so what?Relax and enjoy your fantasies.
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Because it scares me to have these thoughts. I know that it isnt "normal" so i am always asking myself-"what am i?" but i will try and relax a little more.thanks
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You cant reverse it, it's a normal and natural state of mind. You were born that way and will stay that way even if you hide it. Have you actually had sex with a man and a woman?
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No on both-i am coming close though-read about it in the ost that says Sex Help!!!maybe you can help me out. i NEVER want to with a man-just women.
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^^^^^^^i am coming close to a woman that is^^^^