Okay my problem is this.I was dating a girl, and she dumped me.After a while she told me she wanted to get back together with me but she wasn't sure.I told her to think about it and then tell me.Fast forward 4 weeks and she hasn't said a thing.Now all of a sudden she's yelling at me for LOOKING at another girl in school, as if we're still together!.What. The. HELL?
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What the HELL?
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Some females do that. I remember this one girl in school that would slap my arm if I mentioned how another girl looks or if I make some kind of facial expression when an attractive girl walks by. Even though we were "friends" and she had a boyfriend, she insisted that I not do that in her presence. Oh yeah, and she liked to claim me as her own every so often. lmao. I don't get it but I stopped trying to understand way back when.
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Dear Bjarko,Since it has been 4 weeks since you two have been on the subject of your relationship, even though it may be unclear to you, to her she might have just slid back into the boyfriend/girlfriend zone with you. Have you been spending the same amount of time with her after the break-up as when you two were together? If so, she may feel that nothing has truly changed, and even though not explicitly spoken, she may think that things have been mended. If you feel the need to know how she feels about the relationship, ask her. You can casually bring up the question while you two are spending time together, and ask her how she feels about you. Be prepared to share you own feelings about her, and make sure that you are true to her and yourself. Ask her about where she thinks the relationship is going, and ask her about that "response" she was thinking about.Best,Dr.SL
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In reply to: Ask her about where she thinks the relationship is going what relationship?it sounds as though she is being unfair.deffaintely talk to her, be blunt, get answers. most likely will be "ooh i want to be friends" or some crap, then just tell it to her straight that she has no say in how u look at women, who u go out with etc
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no, I know what is going on. Girls become very terrirtorial over guys that are close to them. I had a close girl friend and even though she was going out with another guy she still claimed me as her property, and now I have Milea doing that to me, here at college. I just get used to it.
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chicks are crazy. period. end of story.
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who is lonely sexpoint?
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I'm assuming she was responding to Last.
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that is what i thought, but i had to be sure.
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In reply to: what relationship?it sounds as though she is being unfair.deffaintely talk to her, be blunt, get answers. most likely will be "ooh i want to be friends" or some crap, then just tell it to her straight that she has no say in how u look at women, who u go out with etc Dear cool,The use of word "relationship" has many different contexts. However, it is much commonly associated with dating. But, I'm sure as you know, relationships are not always limited to dating the opposite, or same sex. There are relationships with friends, parents, aunts, uncles, sons, daughters, pets, the list goes on.The way that I intended for readers to understand by post was to treat the word relationship as simply the bond one had with another person. Therefore, by "Asking her where she thinks the relationship is going," one is asking her where she thinks their relationships stands as friends, boyfriend/girlfriend, co-workers, board members, teammates, etc.Your handle icon is pretty nifty, if I may say. Did you make that? 3DSMax, Maya, or Lightwave?Cheers,Dr.SL
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I think you should ignore her. As a girl, she's just using you. When she likes you she'll claim you, when she doesn't she'll just put you aside. To her, you're like a puppet ona string...not to be offensive, but This girl sounds controlling and bossy to me. Now you don't want a girl like that do you?
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i am not lonely at all actually. in fact i live with a very loving and kind girlfriend. we have a great time together and i am very satisfied with my place in life. we will be spending our one year anniversary on feb 21 of this year, and i am looking forward to nothing more.