ko9, maybe she wants you to put the moves on her.
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Men Can Never Be Trusted...
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could be. though I'm only like 20% good at reading her.
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that is actually very re-assuring for me. I appreciate you for posting that. Thank you.
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This is my contact to you: I disagree that upbringing has any large part to deal with how you view women and your morals. The reason being, is you ALWAYS have a choice. You can choose to grow up and be nothing like the father you had, always cheating and lying, or you can choose to grow up and be identical to him. Free will is the key to unlocking the chains that your upbringing has bestowed upon you.
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So you're saying that one has no choice/limited choice whatsoever when they mature into what they will become, simply because mommy or daddy told them it was right, when they were youngins?
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I'm not trying to disregard the fact their upbringing had something to do with their moral and social developments...I just said that it only had a small part in it.
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I disagree. Human behavior is learned behavior. I think it is more of a subconscience imitaiton than a notion of free will(or lack there of). One's upbringing has more of an effect than a lot of people realize.
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I still think it's a matter of letting it take hold in your psyche(sp?) as opposed to it being there subconsciously. I mean take a look at some of the people who just for no apparent reason, snap and go "postal". Just because one day they walked into an office and started spraying rounds everywhere doesn't necessarily mean they had a traumatic childhood, or it was something that was influential to them in their childhood...but that's just my opinion.
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Thats the very definition of subconscience. Its not a matter of letting something take hold in your psyche, its there, its a part of your very being, a part of who you are. There are things that shaped what kind of man blackmanoncampus became, before blackmanoncampus was even old enough to understand his surroundings. But thats just my opinion also. I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree.....its kinda like the chicken and the egg
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you know what i totaly fuckin feel you. it makes me wanna just die cuz who can u trust to be honest i cant even trust my own best friends anymore. my b/f isnt like other guys hes great but he still lies and i dont know what to do. i figure if my b/f is the greatest guy i have ever met but he is still a fuckin liar i dont even wanna know what the others are like.....