is there anyway of knowing if my cherry's been poped eventhough I haven't had sex
How do you know if your cherry's poped?
Most likely your hymen has been broken already. I'm not sure how you would check without breaking it.
Even though some girls have not had sex, their "cherry" or hymen may have broken through other means. Girls who horseback ride can have their hymen broken due to the roughness of hitting the saddle.
If suddenly you notice unusual bleeding from your vagina, and you are concerned about your hymen's intactness, a visit to the doctor can tell you whether or not your hymen has been broken. Although bleeding may not be a good sign, unusual and unexpected bleeding is good cause for scheduling a check-up.