Ok, think of the movie Brown Sugar if you have seen it...two best friends are with other people, and are there for each other all the time...end up realizing that they are in love with each other. This has currently happened to me. I met my best friend, we'll call him C, in June, and since then we have been together all the time over the summer and recently. He has a girlfriend of two years. I have a boyfriend. I know there is a connection though...we do more than what friends what do...all innocent mind you, but others think there is more to it. Am I crazy or am I in love with two people? We spent time together on a vacation and slept together in the same bed, but we both knew we felt something, and yet we both keep telling ourselves, each other, and everyone else that we love our boyfriend/girlfriend. Help, what do I do? What's wrong with me that I am so confused?
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My Best Friend..or more?? Help!
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It might be that your waiting for HIM to say something. Sounds more then just friends from your discription, i have never faced this before so couldn't give you first hand experience. My advice is to talk to him if YOU really like him, and if its to much, start hinting at it more(some how or anything =) )~john
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been there, done that. it is incredible when it actually happens, and really, i think you owe it to yourself to give it a go
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All I have to say is make sure he feels the same way before you take the dive by yourself.
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i dunno, he has been with this girl 2 years, he talks about marriage with her,....everytime he says something great about us he says something about her afterwards. I wonder if he thinks he has to, to assure himself. Its what it feels like anyway. Could you maybe tell me a little about your situation? It would be great to get this from another point of view. I'm still confused on what to do...I think it would be great to be with him at some point in my life if things keep up the way they are, but I just don't know.