Hello, new to the boards, saw this page and decided maybe i could use some more imput then my RL friends. Name is John, and 15 years old.This new girl from Florida, the exact city where i was born (Ft. Lauderdale), came to my school wensday. I had no problem meeting her and starting a conversation, never really had that sorta problem before. So friday comes along, i ask for her # she gives it to me and my cell doesnt save it, AND it was her bday that friday. Now monday she was kinda annoyed with me, and gave me some smart remakrs =P. gives it to me again and thats ok.I realllly like this girl, more then a physical attration (myself and her are both good looking, for me goin off of what others have told me), but also i just got done with almost a year relationship with an ex. Started fighting and didn't have the time to sort things out so ended it. Im wondering if pursuing this girl is worth it (friends told me to tell her how i feel, if she says anything other then yes then its not worth it, and you shouldn't fret over it anymore). I was plannin on doing this, if i lost her then i guess oh well there are a few other guys already tryin to get with her (friday she turned down two guys right in front of me). Guess im prob just anxious to get back up after last girl, but just dont know heh. Anyways i wont talk to her till lunch so ive got some time to think, and it needs to be done today i think, being the weekend.thx for any respones/help.~john
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Advice please.
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Sorry, but first period is ending soon (only time to be on computer before lunch), and would like some more input before i get her or make a fool of myself. ~john
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Well how do you feel about her? If you like her, then ask her out, nothing can happen if you don't. If it's just you going on the rebound, I think that you shouldn't because it's not right. Do what you want, your friends are right tell her, see what she says then take it from there good luck.
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talk to her. that is your best bet. your friends are right in that if she says anything other than yes, say 'seeya'
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Wow almost a year w/o doing anything to get a girl..lol
one of her friends asked me if i liked her, said yes, and then her and mary went to the bathroom. after they were kinda giggly and mary seemed more flirty during the lunch break(more touching) but i never had the chance to say anything cuz of her friend bein right there, and wanted it to be more 1 on 1. Anyways see what happens tomorow i guess, and we will prob have our nightly convo over the phone =|. shoulda just said something but now its all wish washy. -
Aight talking to her was the best idea =). Told her friends that i wanted some alone time with her (they went back into the lunch room and me and her spent the rest of lunch together (20 mins)) Lol did it the old fashion way just said will u go out with me =P was kinda cute i guess. Told me thought you would never ask and gave me a big hearted hug. Made my week, got rid of these stomach pains LOL(or could be the peptobismal). But thanks, forgot that talking to someone is always better then letting it go.~john