Ok. I have been suspecting something for a while, but would really like to belive that i am just paranoid. Anyways here it is. My husband and I have only been married for 7 1/2 months and we just had a little girl. (She is the most amazing thing in the world!!! :grin:) But we had been together for almost a year prior. There had been a few parties and one slut in question. She is the type of girk that even i had a piece of at some parties. But my husband has a thing for her, he says that he doesnt anymore because she is now married to his besfriend, who only lives upstairs form us. Well my husband, boyfriend at the time, slept with her at a party while i was there. We moved past that. But a few weeks later, he was wasted and tried to go to another room with her. Well we worked through that too and he professed his love...blada blada blah. We get married cause i love him and i belive he loves me too. Anyway, we (me my husband and his bestfriend) work for the college that we attend, and it is a easy 3 hours a night 5 days a week. Ok he always claimed to come up sick after we had gotten to work and go home. I eventually noticed a patern, 4 out of 5 times he went home, it was the nights that his bestfriend was working. Maybe just a pure accident. But then he decides to tell me when he has been up to her apartment, but he never dares to step inside, because he doesnt want me to her about him being anywere around her and taking it the wrong way. But he comes up with lame reasons. Reasons: To get his porn back (he lends it to his bestfriend), to get a lighter that she had barrowed from us 2 days earlier (he couldnt seem to find the 2 new ones i had got him that week), and to barrow a movie (but he didnt dare step inside. I dont know i am not sure, but I would love some opinions. Thanks :confused:
Is he cheating?
Uhhh, hmmm. Hard to say. Considering his past it sounds to me like he may very well be cheating.
I agree with websexinfo and would be suspicious of him. It sounds too much to be coincidence that he is sick everytime you three work together. You even say that he comes up with lame reasons to excuse himself for going up to her apartment. If he's sick, why does he need to go up to her apartment? Getting his porn back while sick? Needing a lighter while sick?
Well. Don't let my opinion offend, or make you do anything sudden. But Females have a knack for telling if a man's cheating or sleeping around. Most men deny it, some may even look very genuine even though they are not. I've had no experience with infidelity. But tell you that he keeps on going upstairs I basically believe A: He's either really sleeping with her. B: he's still hung up on her and wants to see her.
If I were you...I'd divorce him or move away from the girl. Because, he is sexually attracted to her, and a real man would love his wife not love another woman and his wife.
If you really want to confirm your suspicions, I've been watching a show called Cheaters. The website I think is www.cheaters.com. If not, check on google.
I feel for you. Maybe I'm wrong, Maybe I'm right. But my advice is to stay strong.
He's comming up with really lame excuses to go to her apartment, and if he was truly sick he wouldn't be there in the first place. I say confront him and ask him whats the deal. I also think you should move away from that girl as soon as possible. I hope everything works out alright for you.
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