ok, i like this girl, actually i was going out with her once, but now she is going out with my friend Mat, but there was a scool dance last night and Mtat wasnt there, but his GF was, and we started talking and had a really good time, then she asked me if i would dance with her, and since i liked her i said yes, but now im not totally sure where we stand, and i cant really talk to her at school because Mat is always right behind either me or her, can some1 tell me what to do?
Me and a friends gf
Thing is, it was just a dance.. so it doesn't really mean anything does it. It might have meant something if Matt was there and she asked. But honestly to be fair to your mate, I think you should leave it for now. But if you really want to know then text her or call her. Just remember Matt is your mate, you could be treading on thin ice if you push things.
<b> J a X x </b>
Not trying to put you off or anything, but don't forget what might happen if things go wrong!!!
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Oh...well I'm going to be a bitch on this subject no offense. Don't ever cheat on your friend. No matter how cute the girl is, how sweet, the history, how good you feel...never ever. It makes everything worse with this selfish act. Even if she does like you..can your friend ever trust you ever again?
When I was younger...I've ruined so many guys relationship. The only reason why I flirted with my boyfriend's friends was just to feel superior. Yes I admit it, I was a skank...and somehow they always still go behind their friend's back to try to have a relationship with me. I've dated best friends before, after I broke up with both..they never even hang out in the same group anymore. Do you really want that? cause the crumpled piece of paper can never be perfect again.
Its sad but true...to men..females will always seem more important to them at that time..but afterwards they sumtimes realize their mistake.
All I'm saying, is one dance? one good conversation? is that worth it? I believe you're just infatuated. Plus, ur still young...most relationships at your age only last from a couple of weeks to month...and your friendship is most likey built from a couple of months to a couple of year....
As a girl. I think the girl likes you too..but most likey she's like a bee. She'll go to other flowers but she'll always return to her hive. Get my metaphor? But w/e, if you wanna give up your friendship for her..then do it.
Friends forever. Girl/boys never. lol. Dunno if its true but ironically my current relationship was that me and him..had a one night stand. He started thinking about me a lot, I did too. He was uh dating my friend at that time. I told her what happened..she got very mad but happy I told her. Well anyway..we started just hanging out..we would always have fun, found we had a lot of commons and differences. Later he broke up with his girl to be with me. It took me 4 months to finally say yes...because I wainted until my friend got a man so Icould feel comfortable with him...
I don't know if this helps you at all. But hopefull...you make the right decision. There is never a right answer, just a better one.
well i found out something else a few hours ago, i dunno know if its true but i was told by a friend that the girl i like doesnt really like mat, she is just doing it to make some1 else mad ....
Also i was told by Kaitlin (the girl i like) that she had told mat everything that had happened and all he said was he didnt care, im not sure about that either but i dont think shes lieing, so that complicates things even more, thanx for all the help so far though
I wouldn't know whether to believe that or not. Even if it is true, I still think that you should leave it, IF she does like you then let her tell you. Let her tell you that she doesn't really like Mat. From doing this, you aren't being unfaithful to your friend. But it's up to you what you do, as people say, don't let a girl come between your friendship, think about it.
<b> J a X x </b>
well if she is going out with someone, just to make someone else mad she seems like silly selfish bitch and you should stay away from her, she might just go out with you to piss someone else off....like matt for example.....
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