Okay, 2 months have gone by since me and that asshole Sean broke up...ya'll remember him? Well I'm hearing from several different people which are my realli trustworthy and good friends that he's telling ppl I was choking on his dick when giving him head and that my eyes were tearing up. He has told this girl Katie that, this girl Lisa that I talk to, and my friend Julie. I know he's probably just trying to piss me off and make me look bad, but it's only making him look like an ass. Any way, the real reason my eyes were watering was because i have a realli sensitive nose (No Lie) and the cologne he wears (which I always use to complain about) was near his dick for some reason. I started tearing up b/c the smell was bothering me, and I have no problems deep throating. I'm actually just kind of upset he would insult my deep throating skills. But any way, this shit wasn't anyone's business, and now ppl are hearing stories that we fucked 2 times (which we never did) and about my eyes watering. People are starting to get bad impressions of me. I'm sooo furious b/c that asshole tried calling me the other night to cry to me about how his grandfather died. He said no one else bothered to ask what was wrong nor did they care. So yea, while he's saying this shit about me behind my back, he's wanting my sympathy. Gah, he pisses me off so bad, what should I do? I want to call him out and jack him up in front of everybody, and everyone is telling me i should...what do ya'll think?
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Return of the asshole bf
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you are in high school right? I would not worry about it too much. If it makes you feel better just have your friends spread rumors about his dick or something...But I would chill about it, when you are out of high school, it is going to me nothing.
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Yeah, but when you're in high school, stuff like that can have a damaging effect on people. I say you should confront him and tear his ass down! Let people know that the crap he's telling everyone isn't true, and I think you should tell him off for talking behind your back and then acting like he isn't. Thats just crap and you shouldn't be put through that.
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Hmm. This sounds like an ass. Well you can't really change rumors, you can let them die down. ORRRR what I would do is tell everyone that he has a small ass dick and sux in bed that even your finger gave you a lot more pleasure than he ever would. Say that you could never choke on it because it was like a limp noodle. Say he's impotent, and loves to have a finger up his ass(nothing wrong with that, just some people view it as unnatural). Lol, hopefully this helps? myabe its not your cup of tea. Yes yes, it sounds extremely grotesque and quite hypocritical to start rumours your self. But sometimes you just gotta show that you can't be fucked with. Even though its kind of saying you did fuck him..kinda..I dunno. but I'm the type that would rather give upa bit of dignity to kill someone else's completely.Don't let people fuck with you, because if you do..they will always step on you.
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Just ignore it. If you confront him, and make a big scene- talking about how small he is, how he doesn't please you, etc-that'll just propell the rumor. More and more people will be talking about it, then he'll probably start more rumors about you.
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Just ignore it. It's petty high school crap that a few months from now will mean nothing. I had some nasty rumors spread about me in high school. I got worked up over them, but a few months later I don't think anyone remembered. Once you get out of high school you'll look back on all this and just laugh.
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you might not want to stoop to his level though
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I don't want to make myself look really low by spreading shit, but he's a jock football player who always has jokes and has everyone's attention. He has the ability to realli destroy me, and I'm a really strong verbal fighter, but he makes me nervous..like the fact that he's schizophrenic. he always used to warn me, dont' piss me off b/c I don't like to get mad.. the other me comes out. There's no knowing what he'd do. So maybe I should just confront him in a mature way, not stoop to his immature level. Otherwise he would keep spreading shit about me...even about my large labia b/c he knows how sensitive i am about that. I know it's just highschool, but it's distracting, and I don't want guys thinking I'm a slut and them coming to me for just a piece of ass. I don't put myself out there for just anyone, ya know?
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ignore it, don't let him or anyone else think that these rumors are getting to you
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Well I think those are good ideas..but as a teen a rep was hella important ignoring it uis the smarter way, but its also the harder way.
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Thinking back to high school, I assume that your reputation is really important to you. Although I think you should ignore it because in a few months this whole situation will be a distant memory, it seems as though you are more concerned with advice that will stop this rumor now....Try talking to him. He started the rumor, and he's really the only one who can stop it.
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Well he called out of the blue last night, wanting to see what I was up to. Well I told him I was upset with him and told him what I heard. I couldnt realli hear what he was saying b/c i was on my cell phone, but apparently my friend morgan forgot to mention some shit to me and she exaggerated, so did my friend Julie. They've both been known to do that. But anywho, I don't care anymore. It's stupid shit. If people want to know they can ask me.
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when you hear these rumors coming to you, simply respond w a: choking? wouldn't it need to be bigger than a roll of dimes for me to chock on it? problem solved.