Uh, little help here...

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Hi.I'm 15 and I'm beggining to have a problem with staring at women's breasts. Its not that I don't like looking at breasts or anything (they're kind of nice), its just that I'm that sure some of them catch me doing it, so its embarrassing.The problem is that it has become automatic, and I find myself automatically looking at women's chests instead of their faces when I see them, and have to make a conscious effort to look them in the eyes, which is annoying. (This problem really comes to a head when it happens with my teachers or my relatives.)I don't think there's anything wrong with a quick look once in a while, but to find myself doing it all the time is just embarrassing.So, to all you guys out there, how do you manage to deal with this?And to the ladies, how much do you mind us looking? How much is too much? How much is acceptable (if any at all is)? What do you think about it?I'm open to all suggestions, even from the women, grateful for any anwsers to either question.Also, while I'm here, and seeing as I'm gonna be checking this post for the next coupla days, feel free to ask me any questions as a 15 year old guy. Although I'd really like you to anwser my question(s) first, please.

eh...nevermind the girls and their thoughts on this matter. just keep on doing it. they like it.

Well, I don't really have much of a chest, but it's nice knowing that when I meet a guy or talk to one, he's looking at me straight in the face..and if he likes me, it's not because of my tits.

I would've thought girls would be a little freaked out if someone just stared at their chest... Can understand maybe if you had a quick glance checking them out or whatever that's natural, but to do it all the time (not saying it ain't natural, cos I don't know) I don't think they'd feel too comfortable with that.

Its not like I stare at her tits for the whole conversation or anything, that would be weird. Its just it takes 2-3 seconds to look up to her face, and unless I force myself to look her in the eye constantly after a while I usually catch myself looking at them again and have to force myself to look at her face again, sometimes to see her giving me a "look" (not good). Still looking for ways to deal with this + any answers to my questions, from both guys and girls out there.

Answers? Girls? Guys?

Well, if I liked you I'd be blushy and be like heh you like what you see?(I wouldn't say that)! But if you're my man, I'd be pissed off if you stared at a girl's chest...I know insecurity but its rude. Some girls think you're a perv, some girls think its a compliment. It depends who you meet...Honestly just keep on trying to stare at her face, you'll make it a habitI sometimes can't help but check out the guy

dude dont look at them at alllook awaykeep busy with other stuffand if you have to look at them just look them in their eyes and maybe in a while they will look away givin u time to stare at their chests

I think it's maybe an age thing..i rememebr going through a phase when i was a young teen and I couldn't help glancing at guys' crotches. God knows why as I never actually digested what I was seeing, it was just a habit. Though i grew out of it after a while.

" ...I never actually digested what I was seeing..." I love the phrasing of that in the context sorry, a bit random...

lol. mental note: must now worry about crotch appearancethanks for the help every1. im getting better at it

Well, I'm 10 So I Don't Really Care If You Even Read This But All Of My Friends Are 13-15 And Some 11 Y.O. They All Don't Mind If A Guy Looks At Their Chest Glad I Could Help And Could You Answer My Question? Well I'm Crushing On This Guy And He's 14 Do You Think He'd Ever Go Out With Me?

Age10: I would date you as long as I liked how you acted, your attitude and everything on the inside. I dont really care about appearance or age. I'm 14 by the way.Yeah1: Well, whenever I talk to people I dont know I et nervous and shy so my eyss look everywhere. I look at her body, her face and everything in the room but when I move my eyes from side-to-side I usually get a glance of her boobs. I do without thinking so if you dont usually look around the room when talking, it may look kinda wierd.

in reply to 10yr36a: well speaking from experience, I had an 11 yr old girl hu went after me. I guess she had a crush on me. She was nice and everything, even good looking, but when she wanted to go somewhere I just couldnt do it, i kept thinking she was the same age as my little brother. And there was a huge different in mentalitly. She still had to sing songs in school for instance.p.s. Ur friends probably dont have much of a chest yet so they wouldnt mind, and the guys around them are probably not old enough to begin to notice them yet.

Hey Age10girl, please don't capatalize every single word in a sentence, it's just wrong. How you have a five star rating I have no idea....

i think that it is an age thing i remeber in grade 8 i would be like boobs boobs booobs boobs boobs chochlate bar boobs boobs boobs lol dont get me wrong i resepect girls it was just subconcius you know anyway dont worry you will grow out of it

it's true, all girls are different, but you can usually tell which ones will be offended with this and which ones won't be. If a girl is wearing "sluttier" clothes, and is particularily flirty, she probably would love the attention and consider this a compliment. If she's not like this, I'd try to concentrate on making eye contact. Tell yourself to do it before you even approach a girl. Personally, i'm used to guys looking down there. it's pretty ordinary, and it's usually when they come to the realization that you have them that they look, and not necessarily if they like what they're seeing (although i hope they do). Your a pretty normal 15 year old guy, no harm done.

:smile:Hey well actually my best friend is a D cup so I don't think what you said is right oh and how do you like my writing :grin: :grin: :smirk: :smirk:

i dont really find guys staring at my chest b/c they are not my best asset to speak of. but if i had them i would porbably feel embarassed when boys stare at them

Well then the boys your age probably arent old enough/developed enough to notice them, or appreciate what they see. Unless of course its one of your 15 yr old friends. Guys HER age might notice.