do u have sex with your g/f or b/f?
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How long after dating...
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when your mature and comfortable and are able to handle the responsibilties that come along with sex
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when your mature and comfortable and are able to handle the responsibilties that come along with sex
well according to this statement, me thinks that most people on this board should NOT be having sex.
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well according to this statement, me thinks that most people on this board should NOT be having sex.
Keep your opinions to yourself on that one Last.
I can't comment as i've only just started going out with my girlfriend so we aren't looking to take that step in the relationship. But, I think you should when you both feel that you are ready. You should both love and trust eachother and this is important so as Amanda said you can handle the responsibilites along with sex.
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Keep your opinions to yourself on that one Last
are you kidding me? you actually think some of the 14 yr old's on this board who are asking common sense questions about sex and masturbation SHOULD be having sex???!!! if you don't know, you are not ready.
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Nah but I meant on behalf of people that are my age basically people that are old enough to have sex. But I agree that you should think it through and makesure that the both of you are ready for it. Btw, 14 yr olds and below should wait till they are at least 16 (the legal age) and ensuring that they are READY and have taken the consequences into account. But honestley makesure the BOTH of you are ready.
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I feel my way to that point.
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Time isnt really a very important factor in this... You need to be able to talk about things with eacother and discuss sex and contraception - both need to be able to communicate well and feel comfortable to make sure that both of you are OK and happy if you decide to have sex... You also need to be able to talk about the "what ifs.." - if something goes wrong etc. Basically the key is communication and maturity
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Me and my bf did after about 3 months
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I wait at least 30-45 minutes without having sex. Unnatural to go any faster than that. Heh, well it all depends. I usually dont set time limits. I've only had sex with 2 girls, but I didn't know how long it would be. Maybe its different with guys. Most of us horny guys would have sex with any decent looking chick. So most of the time it's up to the female, and you just have to understand that, especially if you have been sexually active and they have never experienced the feeling (aka virgin). I know from experience. Before we had sex, we both became comfortable with each other's bodies. We knew each other up and down. After you get so comfortable with you girlfriend you will be able to do crazy shit with them. It's hard to explain. When I got close to my girlfriend, we just connected. I didn't plan on taking her virginity. She even had a promise ring, saying she would wait until marriage. One day she said she was ready, which of course she wasn't. So it took awhile, but I didn't mind because I love her. I wasn't in the relationship for sex, and we fell in love, things happened. So don't put a deadline on when you can have sex. Get comfortable, then build a strong relationship around that.
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LOL 30-45 minutes. I think he meant how long after you start dating.
So you jump your girl after 1/2 hour of going out on a date?