What should I do?

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This may be a goofy thing to worry about, but oh well, I must goofy. Okay, last night a cute guy (that I just happen to have a really big crush on) came into the store where I work. Well I was at the cash register and he comes up to me and start talking to me and telling me that I need to go with him to a party next Sunday. I told him I'd love t go, but I work sundays 1pm - 9pm so I probably wouldn't be able to. Well he told me to call in sick or for me to call in 'dead' and that I should just blow off work for the day and just go hang out with him. I told him I'd love to, but I couldn't, and he said "Well hey, just give me a call, and we'll work something out" I told him I didn't have his number and he asked for a peice of paper and a pen and he wrote it down and gave it to me and then walked out of the store. Now my question is, should I call him? I don't know if he was serious or not because he's known as a big flirt. I mean he flirts with everyone, and hes always flirting with me and I've never taken him serious because hes never given me a reason to. He's the type of guy who would flirt with an 80 y/o woman just because he could, and I don't want to call him and look like an idiot if he was just joking (and if he was serious, I'll look like an idiot anyways because I didn't call him - Go figure). Plus, I really don't know how to talk to guys (other than my close guy friends) who are older than me or just guys in general. I'm 18 and hes probably around 25 or 26 (not sure though). Basically what I'm wanting to know is what should I do?

Ok, well you can look at this in 2 ways: the first being to go by his reputation and think of it being a one time thing due to his flirting. Or secondly you can go by the fact you do have a crush on him, and that he has in effect showed that he likes you. My suggestion would be to call him. Ask him whether he is serious about you. Hope this helps.

I'd say that you call him. He gave you his number for a reason, and I'm sure there's no real harm in asking.

How long should I wait to call him? I don't want to sound overly eager just because I got his number...

Well, are you actually going to go to the party? It would be best to think of what you're going to say. Call him tomorrow or Wednesday, leaving enough time to not seem eager but also leaving it long enough to seem like you had almost forgot about him.

Just play it cool

Yeah, I thought about doing that.

And I forgot to mention one (or two) of the things that made me a bit hesitant about calling him. First of all he asked if I was going to buy some beer to bring to the party (told him no because I'm not old enough yet), and then he asked if I was going to drink any and of course I told him yeah beacause 1> it's free 2> why should I turn it down and 3> it's free. He smiled at me and said "Okay, my kind of girl" and also I could smell beer on him. So I dunno...

I guess I could just give him a call anyways, and just play it off as if it really didn't matter that he gave it to me...

I dunno...

Whats the worst that could happen?

Lots of things lol But what the hell, I'm gonna call him anyways. But it'll be tomorrow before I call because I'm going to make him think I forgot... play a little hard to get lmao ^_^

Well, good luck to you! And if it doesn't work out, remember, you still have us!!

Okay, I've been up since about 9am, and I've been sitting here thinking about calling him (his name is Brittany by the way), and I'm sitting here trying to be all calm, cool, and collected. I think of what I'm going to say to him and guess what, I get his friggin' answering machine! And everything I had planned on saying just flew out the window and I just sat there for a few seconds going "ummm". So I just basically rambled off something stupid and I forgot to give him my number in return! Oh, today's gonna be a great day *laughs*. I go into work today at 4pm and I'm just betting he'll come in. I swear when he walks in my IQ drops about a 100 pts and I just stand there going "Duh." Then I get all giggly, and I can't talk, all I can do is smile real big and giggle. I hate that!

Well, look on the bright side, maybe you were right about him flirting with you just for the heck of it and he doesn't remember who you are!!!!
Well, if he does come in today, let him do most of the talking, and when you feel the urge to giggle, bite down hard on your tongue, thats what I do to stop myself from laughing.

Heh, well for the record he does know who I am. He calls me his "little ray of sunshine" lol Also by the time I called it was nearly 11 so he could have been at work. And if he was just flirting, thats fine by me. At least I can say I tried ^^

It's so hard to keep myself from giggling when I'm talking to a guy I think is cute. I giggle, blush, and try not to look him in the face which makes me look at other "parts" of his anatomy so I'm forced to look back his face in case I drool (which is really hard when he starts dance to the music we sometimes play in the store while hes at the cash register) lmao But I'll take your advice and hopefully it'll work ^^

You giggle, blush and you stare at his other "parts"? Good thing you were only calling him on the phone - LOL

Yeah, tell me about it ^^ By other parts I meant his butt lol He's got a nice one too ^^

So... when you talk to him, you blush, giggle and walk behind him and look at his arse? Or do you have security mirrors where you work so that you can see behind him?

Yep, I love the security mirrors ^_^ Okay, I'll admit I sometimes look at the other 'part' sometimes (only when I dare to chance it LMAO), but I mainly look at his arse ^_^

Is it just him or do you enjoy staring at every guys ass and crotch?

I try not to look at any guys crotch, but sometimes it happens. Maybe because I'm a horney virgin? Who knows. But I do look at guys butts, some guys have some really nice ones.

Oh yeah, I know what its like to be a horny virgin, I'm not really sure if it will be any better after I have sex, but I'm enjoying myself at the moment!

So, any response from the guy yet?

Not yet, but I'm waiting lol.

Got a question for ya, how do you flirt with a guy with out being too obviouse (ms)?

Lick his face - lol

I suppose that you should just laugh at his jokes, but don't fall into the trap of laughing at his bad jokes, no matter who tells you to do that, we CAN tell and then it becomes obvious. Don't be afraid to laugh AT him, playfully of course.

Look at him a lot, not his arse, crotch is ok, but look at his eyes, seem intrested in him and when and if he says a good joke, use it as an excuse to "accidentally" bump into him or touch him.

I'm sure there is more stuff and I'll post it when I can think of it.