Mary and I arn't doing to well, she doesn't know how to return phone calls (missed supercross saturday night). Her friends in the hospital i suppose, but yet finds time to hang out with her other friends without giving me a heads up.Recently my Exgf has started to try to get back together with me. Sunday night she spent the night, NOTHING, happend. Got in a fight with my mom so she came over and we wathced a few movies and we cuddled. Shes re-entering my life and has always been my love of life. I dont know why Mary is playing hard to get and what not, but with Jessica comming back i dont know what to do. Today Jessica and i spent most of the day together (during lunch and after school), its goign back to our old selves. Women, i think i need a break from u guys for a nice long time =|, but once again u cant live without them =(..!~John
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What to do =(
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If you want to salvage your relationship with Mary, you better talk to her before you do anything else with your ex. Even if you did NOTHING with Jessica, it probably still spells SOMETHING to Mary considering she's you're ex and all.
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I have no idea...Last few days ive been with both of them about the same time. Mary came over to my house couple of nights ago, things went farther then i expected. Then jessica and i hung out all day yesterday (had breakfast together then ate at her house with her lovly parents).Jessica is basically what all a guy can ask for, shes hot (my opinion but others have gone after her), funny, doesnt do drugs/drink, and is pretty caring.Mary on the other hand is a bit bitchy, fun to talk to but is really havin a hard time makin friends wit people. Hot (both are very good looking, one is more a surfer girl look other a preppy i guess) she gets hit on all the time, even before we were "goin out" she was a bitch to them.Dunno why i like Mary so much, not a very nice girl i guess, shes preppy in the outside but sure as hell deffirent on the inside.Im goin to Mary's house tonight to help her babysit, then goin golfing with her in the morning (yet another thing she can claim victory over me with =((( ) then meeting with Jessica and her parents for dinner. Im not tryin to double play these girls but it seems like i am...Bah i wonder if going to the party tonight instead will ease a little of this non-sense =)
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Just tell Mary she's not the girl for you if you feel that way.. you shouldnt have to suffer for her, love is supposed to make you happy.
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YOu are intrigued by Mary...that's it. I doubt you have true feelings for her, and by Jessica coming back into your life I think it's a sign that you should be with her. Who wants a bitch anyway?
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Wow, sounds like you have a situation. Well, let me tell you one thing, if you are having feelings for both of these girls and keep going down the same road (breakfast with one, dinner with the next) you are going to hit a brick wall. Look at all of the options. Look at the good traits of both woman, and the negative. As good as your ex sounds there has to be a reason why she is your ex. You girlfriend now seems like she's falling out of the relationship. Being this is the internet, and I don't know anyone in the situation I can't tell you pick either one. You just need to confirm which one you could see yourself with, and stop spending time with the other one. I don't know if you are sexually active with either one, but you don't want a "Fuck Buddy" if there is some type of emotion involved. Believe me, I've been there.
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Ive fucked things up a bit. I just have no idea, saturday night i got drunk and slept with a girl named kristen or...did something with her (what my best friend told me). His gf came over brought some friends, had some vodka sitting around and just got good and drunk. I have no idea if either of them know but eh, i needed a taste of the past =D.
The ONLY attraction i have for mary now is physical, she has a great body, a horrible personality and is just plain rude. decided before i really did anything elts id give her a chance (i mean wtf we were suppose to be goin out or w/e the fuck she meant by that), she says she wants to go to the bball game, then says she cant, then sneaks out, gets in a fight there cops come and shes grounded. Was like.....fuck u im gonna go get drunk saturday night or something..As sexually knew her for 3 weeks she did shit, made out and nothing more. Just no connection anymore. before we got along great but i guess i dug closer and found the worse shit possible.
jessica is beh. Sex wise we did it, and pretty often for my age imo, usually once a month depending on what was going on...just came easy to come by over time. we get along but i think the reason she became my ex is she treated me like a husband i guess? she wanted always to be over, know whats up and shit. im fuckin 15 almost 16 i dont want a girl to be always over me like that, i love her and all but man thats just a bit much. i think we could get back together if she understood every night i dont need to see her and such...
just rambled on and kinda frustrated over all this shit going on.....
john
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i dont know of the people so i can give a really good answer..but by the sounds of it jessica seems like a MUCH better person than mary.Mary doesn't make time for you, doesnt seem like she cares about you too much, and sexual stuff after a few weeks isnt a good sign..plus do you really want to put up with her BS and bitchiness?Now Jessica seems like the perfect girlfriend. She probably still has feelings for you and you probably do too even if youre unsure. She treated you like a husband cause thats what us crazy women do when we love someone..you always want to be there for them or near them..shes over doing it a little though with the always needed to be with you.It's your choice of who you pick..but think of it this way..you have a loving ex-gf you still care about that wants you and will treat you like a prince...or a bitch who ditches you,is all for the sex,doesnt care about you a whole lot, and when you break up will prbably start a bunch of crap with you..hope you make a good choice