I started dating a girl about a month or two ago and we have recently started to get serious. The other night in a conversation we were having she said that she can't have an orgasm. and that she has never had one. she has been with other guys so i'm just wondering if this is normal or if its like a medical condition or something????
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My girlfriend can't have an orgasm
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It's normal....a lot of women have trouble achieving an orgasm. It just takes time and practice.
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she just has not been pleased properly. Concentrate on playing with her. Do your best to make her shiver or use anticipation that should help.
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i don't know if its that though. she has never had an orgasm through masturbation or anything at all.
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I can help I think, though I'm just going to relay what my girlfriend has told me. She was 29 when she had her first orgasm. She had tried and tried with all her other partners and eventually came to the realization that she just wasn't going to have one. Before we met she brough a vibrator and started experimenting. She was determined to make herself cum, so one night she got a bunch of batteries and started in on it. 45 minutes later she came... all over the bed (she squirted like crazy.) This was still something that her boyfriend at the time could not make her do. Then we met and she said with me it was different, the way she felt about me. She was much more relax and I was the first guy to make her cum, doing everything... fingering, eatting her out, fucking her. Now, she cums about 5-10 times in an average session. I call her my little orgasm girl. Anyway, I'm not going to take all the credit (though I am good she says). I think a bunch of things came together at one time for her. First, she was starting to explore and find herself sexually... figuring out what felt good and how to control her orgasms. Second, she was really in love with me and I was VERY patient at the beginning, which I guess her other boyfriends were not. But it didn't take long, we drove each other crazy at the beginning and still do. Lesson from all this, she needs to do some exploring on her own. Then she can tell you what feels good. If you're comfortable with it, buy her a vibrator... the egg things are great. You can even join in when she's ready. Make her feel comfortable. After a while she'll cum and your sex life will get amazing. Good luck brother!