For some reason i really think my friends arent that great. whenever i drink a lot i let all my anger out on them and have gotten in fist fights with many of them. when i think of the definition of a friend i dont really think they match up to it that well. but then again maybe thats how friend are suppose to be.also theres this girl i really really like.. but im always worrying that if she said something mean and denied me and hurt me that i would do something stupid. on the bus in high school a girl that i like did and i lost it and grabbed her arm and made a huge scene.im always thinking about how great it would be sometimes when they piss me off to just do something drastic to make them think twice about me and regret not bein a better friend.. or something.i never have actually hit anyone.. when im not drunk that is. and i dont know if i would.so could this just be my crazy mind fantasizing about things that won't happen, or do i have issues?
My advice: Stop drinking. Period. Its making you angry and start fights with everyone. Alcohol does not mix well with some people.
You seem to be blaming others alot. Sseems like you are the one with the problem.
What is your definition of a friend? You're not exactly being a friend by beating them up when you're drunk.
People come, people go.
my definition of a friend? someone that doesnt treat you like shit. doesnt that make sense? and how is that my problem?
and by the way, its not just when im drunk, so to tell me to stop drinking alcohol is not going to help.. plus, if i did stop drinking, i wouldnt have any friends.
Well then there ya go. They're not real friends if they'd ditch you if you stopped drinking.
People come, people go.
If your friends aren't so great why are you friends with them?
So you think your "friends" should let you beat them up?
That is definitely not how friends are supposed to be.
Do the "girl" a favor, leave her alone.
How can you possibly think its okay for you to be mean to someone because they aren't doing or feeling what you think they should?
You are a controlling abusive person. I don't know why anyone would even want to be your "friend". You seriously need to get some help.
You say, "i never have actually hit anyone.. when im not drunk that is" like it's okay to assault people because you're drunk. Get a clue.
To be sure, YOU HAVE ISSUES!
Big, fat, wet, juicy smiles!
In reply to: How is it that if you stopped drinking you wouldn't have any friends? Years ago when I was doing lots of dope, I had friends...dope friends. I stopped doing that, and yes, I didn't have those friends anymore. (no loss, trust me) Now, I have many meaningful relationships. No fighting, no DRAMA or any of that bullshit. In some circles drugs and alcohol are thought to cause the same social problems. Just food for thought.What's the point of getting "drunk" anyway? Moderation is the key.... your comment actually helped me here unlike the other morons that posted.i didnt mean if i stopped drinking i wouldnt have any friends, although thats what i said. i meant that i would have to start all over and start finding new friends.. just like you did. what you said is exactly what i needed.. and wanted.. to hear. the only reason i started drinking is because i started hanging out with these guys and i wanted to be "real" friends. i guess that was a mistake.thanks for the helpone more thing.. this girl i really like is just like what you were.. she smokes weed a lot and thats who were friend.. (and boyfriend) are. i really think shes the coolest and nicest person i've ever met.. but her only fault is that she ruins herself by smoking and hanging out with these losers. if she smokes and hung out with normal people i wouldnt mind.. but thats not that case. i really dont think theres anything i can say or do to change how she lives.. is there? i really care about her