My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half...and last night he expressed feelings of wanting to take our relationship from being serious to go to dating. He is getting ready to graduate college and feels like right now is not the time for him to be in a serious relationship, but he said he wanted to be with me and he loved me dearly. guys are so confusing Anyone ever tried this and been sucessful.
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Possible to move backwards in a relationship?
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Speaking from experience, that is a very delicate situation. If you guys are going to become less serious, you need clear definitions. What is acceptable and what isn't.Me and my bf went through a similar phase when I first went away to school. It was hard, but we made it. It was a very confusing time for me. Absence does truly make the heart grow fonder(sp?).
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I read this in a book somewhere that even if a guy really likes a female, he'll dump them if it's not the right time. Like he feels like he has to accomplish more before he can get too serious, for that might get in the way of his success. I dunno, guys are weird. Women usually find ways to stay with someone they love and find success at the same time. There's ways around it fellas! But then again..guys Do have a one track mind.
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In reply to: even if a guy really likes a female, he'll dump them if it's not the right time. Like he feels like he has to accomplish more before he can get too serious, for that might get in the way of his success A lot of men have to prove to themselves that they can do what's set in their mind because if they don't then maybe they won't be able to support their girl or themselves like they want to.
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interesting...