Okay, I'm 18 and I have no idea how to flirt. lol Sounds crazy huh? Well it's true. When ever I find a guy I like my IQ drops about 100 pts and all I can say is "Umm" (usaually "Duh") or I just basically stand around giggling and blushing. I hate it! I want to be able to flirt with a guy without looking like moron. And how do you flirt with a guy with out being too obviouse(ms)? I need a little advice here...
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How do you...
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Hey! Well people have different ways of flirting but usually involves touching. It's hard to explain, i'm willing to bet that you most probably know how just that you don't realise it. Just keep close to them, make them laugh, touch them whenever you can, make jokes, all this kinda thing is flirting. But making it not obvious... well most people can tell if someone is flirting with them, that's what makes it fun.
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Be yourself, and have fun. Run up to them, hug them, and just have fun. If you are trying to hard everyone will see it. If I'm intrested I usually flirt with them then say... "You know I'm flirting with you right?" I'm pretty blunt though...
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Oh god! I am terrible at flirting, oh so terrible!When I like a girl I either 1)act like I don't like her, be unfriendly even (I don't know why, I'm just an idiot), or 2) I got to the other extreme and get very very friendly, always trying to talk to them, lightly touching them on the shoulder and brushing my hand against theirs "accidentally". I have even gone so far as to have my hands all over a girls body!! "Hi, I like you... and your breasts are very firm, have you noticed?" Oh the horror!
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Hmmmm... Well, my friends tell me I flirt with every girl I talk to. Including my friend's sister and girlfriend, which he hates and I enjoy to do just to get a rise out of him. But the thing is, I don't realize I'm doing it. I'm not completely sure what flirting is. I usually just say something witty to make a girl laugh, joke around, and try and have a good time. I know I'm flirting when I use a sexual undertone though. Really, I think the definition of flirting differs from person to person. So, the best advice I can give is to not be so serious about anything and maybe use a little sexual undertone every once in a while.
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Okay, thanks guys!
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Well I can flirt with guys who don't fit in the "I'm interested in you" catagory, but I have problems flirting with the guys I'm interested in. I just freeze and then I end up doing something really dumb. lol