I have recently been sexually active with my new boyfriend. We did use condoms, but did not bother with any sort of protection for oral sex. It has been about a week since he went down on me and now he is sick. I am really freaking out. I was tested a little over two years ago and I had a clean bill of health, but I always wonder about the accuracy. He is getting terrible headaches and has had a fever. He is also having muscle pain, but I assume that is more from the fact that he is a little out of shape and we had sex a lot before this episode. These seem to be basic symptoms of the more serious stds so I have been a little worried about what I may have given him. I have an appointment later this week for my annual checkup and std screening, but I was just wondering if anyone out there may have had any experience with these symptoms. Maybe I just worry too much (he said that he may just have what one of his roommates had). Any help/info you have for me is very much appreciated.
Did I make him sick?
He probably just has the flu.
I hope so. I just checked out the info this site had on stds and I am pretty sure that I have never experienced anything remotely close to the visible symptoms shown. As long as I am not in that certain percentage that shows no symptoms I will be a happy camper.