I don't mean to sound rude but can you stop with the religious shit and stop forcing it down our throats
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Embarrsing question but it has to with girls
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This is out of place becasue I'm a Mod... but I can't help it cuz you pulled the words out of my mouth, so... "Shut up".
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your friggin 14 man u shouldnt be worryin about this shit. go play with ur ps2 or somethin
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haha yah man i like girls i cant help it and yah i do got a ps2 and its tight lmao, well how old were u when u started gettin with girls
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well man i was 17 ish somethin like that. i used to see girls b4 that but never did nething with em, theres no reason for someone that young to be doin that shit. iono thats the way i am. i guess im old fashioned
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lol well ive only madeout and felt soem gurls up but yah
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I would just start by not penetrating, just sorta massaging and then maybe ask her what felt good, DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK, the best way to get better is to ask ure gf what feels good, also maybe ask her as you progress if she minds you doing whatever it is that your doing, it means that you won't push her too far. Also try the toy gun style if your gf doesnt mind, 1/2 finger, approach from the front and use ure thumb to exercise "other areas"! And use some lube, natural or synthetic, otherwise it might be uncomfortable for her.
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btw I DON'T think that you are too young to start with this sorta thing, I think that actual age has very little to do with it, I would look at your and your gfs emotional, physical and mental age and then judge if you are doing it too early, it would probably be better to maybe just do it in your room with the door locked so you can ask each other questions, it make you less nervous around other girls/guys if you do split up. I think it's a psychological thing, if you get one girl to come or at least enjoy herself then you know that if you get turned down by a girl then you can say to yourself "she doesn't know what she's missing out on"
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p.s. dont actually say that to he face, that would just be bent!
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This is disturbing. Giving advice to a 14 year old kid on how to finger a girl! Should that even be legal?!? Would you do that if it were your son? My goodness, the boy doesn't even know where to stick his fingers. How in the name of all that is sacred do you think he's mature enough to handle the emotional aspects of a sexual relationship? You guys can scratch your nuts and brag all you want to about how young you were when you did what, but it doesn't make it acceptable. Sure, preach to him about condoms and pregnancy and STD's and AIDS all you want, but there's no condom on the world that can prevent the emotional baggage that is inevitable when kids start having sex. Do you really want to be responsible for that?Another thing...I get so damn sick of the hypocrisy on boards like this. You guys jump all in Pro's stuff for arguing from scripture and his religious convictions. You say crap like "stop trying to shove your morals down our throat." DAMN that makes me so f-in mad cause at the same time you are all arguing from your own damned morals and trying to get this kid to accept YOUR version of morality. How do you think that is any better than what Pro was doing?Sorry for the rant. I work with kids and I've seen too many of them get totally screwed up by rushing into what should be adult behavior. And I believe our job as adults should be to protect them and encourage them to do what's right and healthy, not teach them how to stick their fingers in their girlfriend's pussy.Nuff said...
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Well, damien, I think people will make better choices if they are better-informed. I don't like the idea of keeping people "good" through ignorance. I do think that morals are very important; however, morals aren't something you can force people to accept. It is very right to talk about them, though. I believe that if somone knows the facts and what other people think is right and wrong, that person is in the best position to make a good decision.Protecting young people by deferring knowledge just puts everything off to a later year without making a better outcome, I think. Wisdom comes from knowledge and experience and doesn't automatically increase with age.
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In reply to: Well, damien, I think people will make better choices if they are better-informed. I don't like the idea of keeping people "good" through ignorance. In reply to: Protecting young people by deferring knowledge just puts everything off to a later year without making a better outcome Sure, I would agree with this. We're responsible to protect and educate kids. I might want to teach my kids to abstain, but they still need to know about birth control and such. HOWEVER - you and I both know that's not what's going on here. Educating for the sake of responsibility and safety is a FAR cry from giving a 14 year old explicit tips on how to finger a girl. How could you even equate the two? That's not responsible or safe. And it is so far beyond the information a kid needs to make safe and responsible choices. Besides, when you start explaining sexual techniques to a kid, you're not just saying what you think is right and wrong, you are actively encouraging an impressionable kid to accept your morality...in essence, placing your morality on him.
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when you start explaining sexual techniques to a kid, you're not just saying what you think is right and wrong, you are actively encouraging an impressionable kid to accept your morality...in essence, placing your morality on him.
Perhaps, but saying no is equally imposing a personal moral view. I don't think there's anything wrong with expressing a personal moral view; but I wouldn't want one view to be considered the only one that may be expressed. It's by exposure to multiple points of view that all of us, whatever our age, can avoid assuming that we have to go along with the crowd whatever they say or do. Conflicting views encourage us to think for ourselves.
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In reply to: What I would be concerned with, is doing it right, and getting married, before fooling around getting married before fooling around? oh yeah, thats REAL bright. ever buy a car you have never seen? well what if it turns out to be crap after you recieve it? could end up the same w marriage....
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In reply to: oh fosho i treat my girls pretty good and yah. but i got a question, how long do u usally fuck most guys go about 30 - 40 seconds, which usually pisses the girl off to no end...heh heh....at 14, dont' expect more than that....now on to more ranting: In reply to: Actually, people not long ago, did get married that young, and still do in many countries, and a major reason was to prevent things like sex outside of wedlock well good for them, you are in the year 2005 now. it's time to grow with the times. In reply to: There was a guy at my old Church who was just 18 when he married, but she was just 17. Everybody thought they were old enough, and not to worry about society's young age prejudices another very good reason to ignore the church and it's teaching...and well, i hope you didn't buy them an expensive gift, as they will be divorced within 5 years, i can almost guarentee. In reply to: Puberty is coming earlier, and yet people procrastinating marriage longer than ever, meaning people have to wait decades for sex. Is that really realistic? People should still be virgins when they marry, not having gave pieces of their soul to another, so why can't more people be encouraged to marry younger, if they are ready and know who they should marry this is probably the most ignorant and biased statement i have ever read on this board (next to EVERYTHING that f22fighter says) did you just read what you typed? encouraging young people to get married before having sex is rediculous...teenagers are in NO WAY able to deal w the responsiblity of that kind of a commitement, their minds just aren't developed enough to accept that sinario, it's peopke like you that are driving the divorce rate up. people need to experience things before they go head first into it. i am 25 and still learning about how to deal w a relationship and how to grow w someone, rather than always doing things my way. i am very certain this is similar w alot of young people. and no, the answer is not to just 'get married'. that's a result of years of growth, intelligence and ability to understand the opposite sex. In reply to: And yes, a reason for younger marriage, would be to have more time to conceive more children, and to fill the world with more wonderful people. Check out Psalm 127:3-5. It says that large families are good, and verse 4, is referring to marriage at a young age. And Genesis 1:28, 9:1 actually does say for people to be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth. And lest you think that is a misinterpretation, check out Proverbs 14:28. It says that large populations are good. I have often thought so, as the #1 population concern should really have been that more and more people would be glad to live, a cool reason why large families should be encouraged worldwide as far as being fruitful, are you aware of the growing overpopulation problem? or just ignorant to it? wow. that is stagering as to how someone can follow something so blindly and ignore the basic problems we have on this earth here and now.
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:grin:just play and find out on your own let her check you out while you're checking her out :grin:
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In reply to: I don't think there's anything wrong with expressing a personal moral view; but I wouldn't want one view to be considered the only one that may be expressed. That's all well and good. We should give kids the information, guide them, and then trust them to make a right decision. However, let's not get hung up on all this talk of morality. The reasons for not encouraging a 14 year old to be sexually active are not all moral. There are many many psychological, emotional and social reasons for it as well.
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In reply to: this is probably the most ignorant and biased statement i have ever read on this board (next to EVERYTHING that f22fighter says) did you just read what you typed? encouraging young people to get married before having sex is rediculous...teenagers are in NO WAY able to deal w the responsiblity of that kind of a commitement, their minds just aren't developed enough to accept that sinario, it's peopke like you that are driving the divorce rate up. people need to experience things before they go head first into it. i am 25 and still learning about how to deal w a relationship and how to grow w someone, rather than always doing things my way. i am very certain this is similar w alot of young people. and no, the answer is not to just 'get married'. that's a result of years of growth, intelligence and ability to understand the opposite sex. Actually THAT'S one of the most ignorant and biased statements I've ever read anywhere.1. I think you and others give young adults far too much credit. I think, under the right circumstances and for the right reasons, they might be ready for marriage much younger than you think. Marriage happens at a later age these days more for economic and educational reasons (or by pure choice) than any other reason. 1. Another area where kids are underestimated: being able to stay a virgin until they are married, whether that's at 17 or 27. I'm not saying it's easy, but it's very possible. I know a ton of kids and young adults who are doing it and doing it well. What really makes it difficult is the chorus of adults justifying their own choices by screaming out how unrealistic it is to expect kids to wait. It's not unrealistic. It should be encouraged, not laughed upon.3. This idea about needing to experience sex before marriage is crap. Folks are gonna know how to have sex. It's instinct. You're not supposed to have it all figured out when you get married. Learning the ropes and how to please each other is part of marriage. 4. Don't take the fact that you are 25 and not ready for marriage as an indicator that no 25 year olds are ready. It's actually pretty arrogant to judge everyone else by your own experience. Besides, maybe you should give yourself more credit. I would bet you're more ready for marriage than you give yourself credit for. That's typically the case.5. I'm not even going to mention the absurdity of your overpopulation argument. Whoops...I just did...
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i never said kids couldn't wait til marriage, but it's unlikely and really, in my opinion, shouldn't. goes back to the statement of buying a car you ahve never seen, which, by the way, is on it's way to you, i have sent a bill along with it, i expect payment in no less than 30 days....that's basically the same thing as waiting til marriage. you don't invest huge amounts of time money into something that you are unsure may work for/with you. sex is very similar to that.
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In reply to: that's basically the same thing as waiting til marriage. you don't invest huge amounts of time money into something that you are unsure may work for/with you. sex is very similar to that. I can't tell you how fundamentally wrong I believe you are. If your parts work, sex will work. It's that simple.But...I think this may be one of those fundamental differences of opinion that underguirds the entire discussion. I can live with that.And thanks for the car!