Hey, i know that many straight guys really like girls alot and are crazy for everythinga bout them. the curves, the smell the smile the warmth...just everything but i think that i may be a little to obsessed over everything that is the female. It starts to effect me on my learning and progression in school, i cant take a test or do my work without thinking about girls so much that i cannot write...and if there are some near me its just over then...i try not to think about them so much because its seriosuly effecting my school work alot but i cant at all especially if one talks or flirts with me
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Maybe unhealthy obsession with females?
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This is going to sound nasty, but it works for me. Whenever you find yourself being overwhelmed by lust, remember this one fact; girls take disguisting dumps too. Anything that you previously found attractive will be put to death in an instant if you remember that.
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I've often had the thoughts of a female or one sitting nearby interrupt what I'm trying to do. Especially in school. Especially when I was in middle school. My thoughts always reflected upon the perfection they possess, and even after all the dilemmas I've been in with them I still think the same way somewhat. But in the end, you just have to remember that they are just people too.
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haha, the complete opposite is what attracts me to males. their 'i don't care' attitude and how they can make you laugh by doing some of the dumbest shit. girls can't always get away with acting like an ass b/c we're supposed to be pretty and perfect. i love it when a guy has a boyish quality to him. one of the things i love about my last bf is that he was the star football player and acted ruff and tough, and he could make anyone laugh with his stupid humor. but then even being so tough he had boyish qualities to him...like when his hair was messed up with no gel, and just when he'd pout or say 'no' a certain way...it was cute, not tough. Even when a boy is sorta dirty and his natural smell comes out...i love that! so i think about boys a lot too in school, but it's never that bad. therefore i have no good advice to you...thought i'd just share that
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In reply to: he was the star football player and acted ruff and tough, and he could make anyone laugh with his stupid humor. Sounds like those cocky jocks in high school. A few of them were too cocky and ended up with a fist in their face.
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Yea, he was pretty cocky, but he was cocky because he was insecure. He didn't believe you could be both when I told him how insecure he is, but you can be. I mean you have to prove yourself, so you act cocky to cover up how bad you feel about yourself. The funny thing is, he used to get made fun of soooo bad before he became popular. How that shit happened I dunno.
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Is there a better way to deal with your insecurity than being cocky? It's better in my opinion than acting weak and giving into everything. I think I definitely have a problem with being insecure with myself, socially, and I sometimes push people away because of it. At least I used to be, although now I'm less that way, but unfortunately I feel even more insecure about myself than before.
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To get over being called and abused u have to act cocky and abuse everyone else :S sure there's a missing link. In england you have jocks, but there called scallies (chavs or whatever) and well, there not really beefy or anything, but they look like there on crack 24/7 and are REALLY dumb and just drag down the overall view of the british community, anoying thing is, girls eat it up and think its cool, and teenage pregnancies at a high, sucks really. Thinkin bout girls bites its not really a thing u can overcome if ur school or college is filled with em, but good luck on tests and leardning
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My former room mates and I Had a poster of Kathy Ireland i think? and the inspirational message below the photo said: "No Matter how gorgeous and hot she may look, some one, somewhere is sick of her SHIT."