How much to girls read into giving them a hug? So far, I have not had a problem, but girls are starting to give me dirty looks when I hug other people. It seems as though some think that by giving them a hug, that I have branded myself as theirs and only theirs. One of them even went so far as to call me a player today and acted like I am supposed to be her boyfriend. Now I understand that in making out with a bunch of chicks, being called a player would be expected. But these are just hugs, so what do girls think they mean?
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Question for HS gals
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Women are territorial. Some more than others. If you're huggy touchy with a girl she may start to think of you as "theirs" and kind of claim you.
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girls want to think that they are the only ones that have your attention, so in a way, hugging several girls can be seen as you playing them, like you're interested in them all.
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As a girl. I wouldn't mind a guy giving hugs. But most girls would think you're flirting...I personally give hugs..and I do it cause it feels good makes me feel like I can open you up. Some girls, may just find it that ur a guy trying to get fresh...I dunno if its true. but If a girl offers you a hug and you accept..it means you are "interested"(not always true but some girls say that) I just think do whatever you want. If you got a gf then try not to hug so much because it will get her jeaous...regardless of what she says
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I'm a girl, I know what you're talking about. I had a friend that would hug me, and I would get jealous when he would hug other girls. I just liked him hugging me, i liked the attention, and i liked when he was just giving his attention to me! I liked him a lot though, like I wanted to be more then friends. so maybe that's the case for you
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I am a serial hugger. I love to hug girls, mainly cause all of my friendships rely on me being physical in some way. Its just the way I am, its not a physical thing in the sense that I only like pretty girls, its that I enjoy hugging and messing around and stuff.
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Not a HS gal, but I'll throw my 2 cents in. It depends on what kind of hugs you are giving these girls. Is it just a short little "pitter patter" hug, or a sort of longer intimate hug? I know if you went around hugging other females in a more "intimate hug" type of way then I'd get mad too.
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lol this is what I use to do. If I thought a guy was hot. I would push my SQUISHY boobs up against him...and he'd be like uhh heh. I would feel very happy lol....
if it was an ugly dude(I use to be really shallow) I would just hug him..coldly..but still hug lol.
If it was my man, i'd do it full on body contact, genitals practically grinding(not really)
Do girls have this kind of system thang...or just like a hug is a hug?
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In reply to: Do girls have this kind of system thang...or just like a hug is a hug? I don't think that a hug is a hug anymore than a kiss is just a kiss.
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But sometimes a kiss is just a kiss. If I had the option I would kiss my female friends just as an expression of friendship. The only problem is that the majority of people can't see it as just a kiss, just like (sadly)a lot of people can't see a hug as just a hug.
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I think more people need to get out of the USA, and see the world a lil bit more. Seems like we're the only ones with some weird traditions (and we try to impose them on others) Like kissing, Europe sees kissing as a hello/goodbye, and as a form of intimacy. A kiss can be just a simple kiss unless prior knowledge about a relationship is known; same goes for a hug.
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Oddly enough, a hug is more intmate than a kiss in Europe
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I think it's almost better in a way that we don't use kisses for hello's and goodbyes, and just everyday common things. Becuse then when they're used to intimacy, or love or whatever, it means a lot more
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Ack...if I were you bottom line just tell them to shut the fuck up and mind your own fucking business.Then hug him.