What do you guys like during sex? my boyfriend wants me to do more and i want to take control during sex but i don't really know what to do..lately we've been doing a lot of the girl on top kind of sex but i want to do more than just fuck him..do any of you have any ideas? be specific...he told me he doesn't even know what he wants and for me to just try new things..but i have NO ideas..he tells me to be more sexy about it..i really need help
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Girls doing all the work during sex...
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I might be wrong but telling my girlfriend to be "sexy about it" doesn't sound cool at all... what a jerkunfortunately I can't help ya but im sure there a people here that can.
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Vaseline. Fingers. Asshole. Result.
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when he said be sexy about it he didnt mean it in a mean way..and hes not a jerk at all..he's the nicest guy i've ever met..not even close to a jerk
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my mistake
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Walk into his bedroom wearing a catholic schoolgirl uniform then lay on his bed and ask, "you want me?"
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well, physically you could move, thrust, and grind more in the same positions; light intimate touching, strokes and caressing, as well as initiating new positions. try fantasy or role playing (not BDSM stuff). and don't be afraid to talk during sex, whether dirty and nasty, sultry and flirty, or just plain romantic.
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This may just be me being mean. But what does he do? Sounds like your doing alot of work in bed and all he's doing is receiving.
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no actually he's been doing mostly everything..that's why we want to try doing stuff that involves me more.He's great during sex and it's alot of fun..i really enjoy it..we just want some new ideas.
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Instead of getting on top and riding his cock, try sitting on his face instead. Tell him you're not getting off until he's made you cum at least twice with his mouth.
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huhhhh the bottom line is he wants u to be more assertive and surprise him because that shows ur sexual side more and really turns him own seeing you doing something completely new and different. You know? Guys like girls being wild and sexy and just rock his world (or cock )Just lose yourself in it and do whatever you think is sexy and hot.
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Ma G/F is quite shy, she doesnt mind the whole sex thing but I just ask her to go ontop, if you dont want to have sex ma G/F finds it hot just thrusting on top of me, even with like pjs etc on, I enjoy it too.
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sit down and think about what you like during sex. try tieing his hands to the bed and pouring candle wax on him or better yet use a feather or icecube and slowly drag it across every inch of his body. save touching the genitalia area for last. it builds up anxiety and will drive him crazy. oh and blind fold him. :grin: