I don't date much because no one really ever interests me, but when I do like someone, that is the only person I want to be with. But I guess to guys it doesn't seem that way. Honestly, I'm uncomfortabale and awkward with guy I like. I can talk to them until I'm blue in the face or on the phone, but when we're alone, it's awkward and my sense of humor gets really sarcastic or mean. Which I don't mean to do. That's what happened with this last guy. I knew I was being difficult but I couldn't help it. That's the way I am. Come to find out he was dating other girls besides me anyways. Even though he was wrong for leading me on, I still think that maybe if I was a little nicer to him, he would have picked me over them. Should I blame myself or just chalk it up as a life experience and move on?
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Did I Push Him Away?
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blame yourself
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I agree with Helsman... I mean I think you are expecting way too much from people when you can't really offer much yourself. That may be really harsh, and for that I'm sorry, but I'm trying to be honest here. I can say though that sometimes I act the same way...I can't explain why however. But you were right in thinking that if you hadn't treated him poorly you may have been the one he picked. And if you knew you treated him poorly, it shouldn't have come as a surprise that he didn't pick you; therefore, I don't think he really led you on.
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Well that whole "men can't be trusted" post came right after I find out my dad was cheating on my mom and that same day finding out the guy was dating other girls. So I really wasn't excited with men at that specific point. I'm not necessarily a man-hater, though (even if it may seem like it.) I just have a very sarcastic, dry sense of humor that guys interpret as mean. So yeah you all are like "blame yourself, blame yourself" but a part of me feels that even if I was nicer to him, he would still be dating those other girls anyways. Knowing what I know now, why should I take the blame and he be blameless?? I'm not delusional, but it wouldn't be so bad to be in a realtionship with myself. All I ask for is honesty and committment and if someone can give me that then I am completely 100% theirs. I would do anything for them. I'm single so I don't necessarily have to compromise...
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and I'm hot.
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What pattern??
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Lol. If ur hot show a pic! But looks dont' matter in a relationship(not as much) the personality is counted a lot more.Remember looks catches his eye. But your personality makes him stay! (not always true)