My girlfriend and I are fully aware of the risks of sexual activity, and as such have chosen to abstain from vaginal intercourse. However, we still engage in 2 sexual activities— handjobs/blowjobs, and me fingering her (also handjobs if you want to get technical.)
We have never had vaginal intercourse, nor have I ever put my penis near her vagina or come on or anywhere near below her waist. Our two activities consist of—
1. Me fingering her, after washing my hands.
2. Her giving me a blowjob, and swallowing.
3. Her giving me a blowjob, and me coming on her breasts. (This only happened once)
It just so happend, though, that the month I came on her breasts she missed her period. She just told me "I don't feel it this month," and says it should come next month. Her periods are highly irregular, especially since going out with me, and she says she misses a period about once a year.
I am very paranoid, though, of course. Why else would I be posting here?
-What are our chances of pregnancy from these types of encounters? If the come on her chest was cleaned up with kleenex, a washcloth, and then an alcohol-based freshener, as well as she had her pants on? Are handjobs risky if the hands are washed/ dried of any sperm or pre-cum? Any chance if she was rubbing around that any of the stuff on her chest could've moved around?
-How often do girls miss a period like this (this is the part which worries me the most)? Every site I go to says it's the first sign of pregnancy, but it's been almost 2 weeks and she claims no other symptoms.
-Most importantly, I have learned my lesson by being scared shitless. Is there any form of birth control we can practice aside from condoms (if those are necessary, we'll abstain)? We wanted her to go on the pill (so she'd have more regular periods,) but her mother didn't want her putting hormones in her body.
I just need someone to tell me our chances are out of this world to get pregnant...I can't believe that we'd get pregnant with the precautions we take, but I'm just so worried! I feel that my stress level would drop significantly if she took a home pregnancy test, but I don't want to worry her more. She has been so reassuring, and I don't want to delay the next ovulation and stress myself even more.
Thanks in advance.
A Missed Period
There is such a low chance of her being pregnant, if I were going to give you a percent, it would be negative. There's NO way she is pregnant!
You came on her breasts...sperm cannot penetrate the nippples last I heard...she's not pregnant.
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DUDE there is NOOOO WAY she is pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!
nope, she cant be pregnant, my gf misses her period sometimes, not a big deal, its normal. Dont worry, just dont have vaginal intercourse and you'll be fine.