hey guys well i was with my gf today, and well she turns me on just by touchin me and talkin dirty and i can get hard sometimes most the time actully. She touches my cock and bang i got a huge boner.. but everytime we have sex and i bust i go soft.. and then cant get hard for a little while, and talkin dirty or me eating her or fingering her or anything like that doesnt make me hard unless i get direct touching to my cock like it being in her mouth her rubbin it softly.. anything like that will make me semi-hard for the time being then after a while i will be fully hard ready to go again. MY question is..is this normal.. and if it is how long till im ,well the average time for guys to fully regenerate?
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Boner problem?
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you don't have a boner problem, thats normal for guys.
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Yes, its completely normal. Its called a refractory period. All guys have this refractory period, however, how long it lasts can vary from guy to guy. For some guys its a matter of only about 10 seconds, but for others it could be as long as a whole day before they're ready to go again. I don't know if anyone has done a study to determine what is the average time to full recovery, but I would guess at least 5 minutes, probably longer.