Okay, I normally ejaculate after one minute while starting masturbation. I know, it's very quick, but I never tried to hold it longer, but now I want too. I just started trying the Start&Stop-Tech, I tried about a couple of times now, but I can't hold myself from ejaculating. My guess is that I stop way to late, but I have no idea WHEN to stop.PS: Or do you know any more effective/easier methods? I know of the pelvic muscle thingy, and I heard how to train it, but how are you supposed to help you? Are you supposed to squeeze the muscle right before cumming?Thanks!
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When To Start Using The Start & Stop Technique
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when you feel the orgasm coming, the point just before, i tend to stop for around 10 seconds and start going again, this isnt to practise stop and starting, its for pleasure, like a prolonged orgasm if you get me.. :S
i heard if you tense the Pc muscles during ejaculation it helps and also can improve the hardness of an erection :smile:
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Trust me, you will be VERY happy when you get the technique down... I've been doing it since about 11, and now I'm a pro. Just last night I was going at it, and I caught myself so close to cumming, but I was able to hold it back quite a few times. I'm finding that I can get extemely close to having an orgasm, wait it out, and when I finally do cum it's very long and intense. When I first started on the other hand, any time I would stop I would cum, and it usually was in about a minute and a half. But you'll see, get used to it and you will have some great orgasms!!
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I like the "Stop & Go" when I have lots of time on my hands and want it to take it a while. I can always stop and let the impending orgasm pass and then resume stroking until I feel it coming on and stop again. One of my variations is after I have done this for long enough and I want the orgasm, I start playing "chicken" with myself, seeing just how close I can get to the orgasm without having it. Of course, that is a game I am eventually going to lose and I finally have the orgasm.
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In reply to: Of course, that is a game I am eventually going to lose and I finally have the orgasm. No. You win.
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In reply to: In reply to: Of course, that is a game I am eventually going to lose and I finally have the orgasm.No. You win. You're right. That is what makes it fun!