I don't know about you guys...but I hardly ever think about sex or having the urge to masturbate. It's really crap to be honest, as I don't 'feel' interested or 'wanting' to do anything sexual. I don't take any medication to reduce my sex drive.When I look at a female I don't look at them for 'sexual fetishes' or 'how big their boobs are', I look for their characteristics and personality. I feel really 'odd' because so many people I know/known don't think this way. So I'm just wondering, am I really that weird?
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Erm weird?
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no
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no i dont think so i think its cool to know that a guy actually thinks like that.
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wow,truthfully that's really awesome. More people should be where you are at this moment
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Have you started puberty? Sounds like low libido or low testosterone.
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I think its cool. But honestly in my mind, You gotta have lust and attraction. Its just a necessity(dunno how to spell don't care). I mean. You can't base love only on personality and stuff. I believe lust and love go hand in hand...but you're alright. Don't mind, its good you find beauty inside not outside.
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I get that way when my work starts piling up on me....and back in college when I partied WAY too much.if you want to feel that way just surround, and envolve yourself in everything sexual. everytime you look at a girl just try to imagine what kind of underwear they're wearing and how they look in them!?
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I have started puberty and I'm probably due to finish. I'm 17.Thanks for the replies. I feel really uncofortable about it - that's why I posted. Like if a person shown me a magazine of a woman's boobs I'd be like 'yeah and?' I've been like this most of my life, it just gets me down that I can't feel how a lot of guys my age do. I'm glad they're people that don't think it's weird, but generally I think a lot of people do think it is.
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All I can think is you just have a pretty low sex drive, or something happened to you when you were really little (many different possibilities) that is keeping you from getting excited.
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Oh dear heavens no! You're turning into an impotent Good Boy! You go get the porn mags, I'll get the warm butter and the cat! We'll beat this together! lol. That's nice you're starting to get your priorities straight along with some morales. However, you should probably see a doctor about your underactive sex drive, 'cause if you do get a gf or wife you don't wanna act like an old married couple (talking weather and no sex) when you're only 19, 20, or 30.
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Yeah your lucky not weird, any girl would be happy to have you.
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I jerk-off every time I see a nice looking chick