Can you tell before a man cums in you? If so how?
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Cumming
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a lot of my exes started to throb right before they came
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Well, my dear, if I can speak frankly....Having had a large sample (of men that would be....;-)I have found that it comes with maturity to be able to know and control an orgasm. In the beginning, I am sure, most cannot know or control.You might be able to approach it in such a way as this. Say, 'do you know when you are about to??' or some such. Do not approach it as 'I hate it and don't ever do it in my mouth, cooch, or whatever' because they may have certain nefarious ideas about what they want no matter what you like.Most, if they are worth their salt as men, would honor your wishes and put it somewhere else. An aversion to bodily fluids is a like or a dislike depending on the personality of the participant. I have found that it is a respect thing. And my advice to you as a young lady, do not keep someone around who does not respect you, no matter how much of a slut (and I mean this lovingly, being a monogamous variety myself) you might be....Love and Respect, and to agree with the previous post, "Keep on Suckin'!!!" (This from someone who truly has a work ethic where fellatio is concerned....:-))K