Hello, I am 14 years old, and for no reason I get so MANY erections. if i sit in a class at school, i get an erection, if a girl hughs me for over 3 seconds, i get an erection, if i kiss a girl - i get an erection, but then i can watch porn and NOT get an erection, WHAT IS HAPPENING?? how can i control my penis?? Thanx, Tom.
I really need help with myself..
Well, unfortunately Tom, you can't control your penis and when you get erections, particularly at your age. Those erections you suddenly get for no apparent reason are called spontaneous erections, and they are caused by the rapid increase in hormones, in particular, testosterone, which is turning you into a man. During puberty, the levels of testosterone increase so much and so quickly, that your body and your brain isn't used to it, and spontaneous erections can happen. EVERY boy in puberty gets these spontaneous erections for a few years. I had them like all the time when I was around 14-16. They are 100% normal, and are actually a good sign that puberty is progressing, all the equipment is working, and you are well on your way to becoming a man.
Here's the good news:
1 - This is a temporary thing during puberty. Depending on how quickly you progress through puberty, you will probably continue to get these spontaneous erections for the next 1-2 years, and they will gradually decline as you get to your late teens, and your brain gets used to the high testosterone levels. Although adults can get spontaneous erections on occassion, they don't happen nearly as often as during puberty.
2 - You're not alone! This is completely normal, and like I said, EVERY other guy your age is getting the same thing.
Hope this helps.
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Thanx a lot Focus, i've been having these spontanious erections for 2 years now, not long to go
hey man dont sweat it i got the same thing. notice i didnt say problem cuz its not. were all human n our bodies all work differently, yet so similar to. u cant help it aand its a completely natural thing. but i know where ur comin from
thanx everybody, so do any of you have tactics to get rid of the erection? if i daydream i loose it, but it's hard to make yourself daydream
I dont know if there ne way to really get rid of it. It usually just has to go away by itself. If there s somethin u know that makin u get one then try to eliminate that, but other than that iono of nething u can do.
I usually think of a 2-ton woman jumping on me and crushing my pelvis, and that usually get's rid of it.
just forget about not masterbating, and do it. do it all the time. do it everywhere. do it with your friend. do it with your girlfriend. do it with your finger in your butt. there's nothing wrong with masterbation however you do it is up to you. just don't think you have to stop or need to stop.
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When i was 14 my dick was up and down like a yoyo. It was out of control..........Nothing to worry about though.
It's an age thing. When you hit your 40's you'll be wishing your dick was still as active as it is now.
Your dick is just asking you to do something with it.
But they don't care when or where they ask for it.
It happens, it will for a while so get used to it... And if someone points it out to you, give them a hat and call them jesus cause they aren't very intrested in class! :grin: