There is something that has kept me confused for a long time. I am currently in a relationship that has lasted almost 2 years. To this day, after we have sex she wraps herself in a blanket and leaves the room to dress. Is this a sign of low confidence, or is there something I am doing wrong? After sex I always, and I mean always, ask her if she is alright and reassure her that I think she is beautiful. I don't really mind, but I question why she does it? Could it be that she doesn't trust me enough? Help me out, please.
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Unconfident?
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does she undress before you? i had a girlfriend like that, We would have sex and then she would ask me to close my eyes so she could get dressed, it was sort of odd, but she felt better that way.
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No, she doesn't undress in front of me. Again, I think she would be very uncomfortable with that.
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Maybe you should ask her. Us girls are weird like that. Even though you have reassured her that you think she's beautiful, I can almost guarantee that she's self-conscience about some part of her body. Or maybe she just does it out of habit. Or maybe its cold in the room. I think it would be best to ask her.
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Well I think what would give her a confidence boost is tell her how sexy and how good she'd look if she slowly peeled off her clothes off of her. If she declines a bit. Wrap your arms around her and kiss her lightly on the neck or something and tell her you really think she'd look good! Lol. But just give her a gentle nudge and plenty of compliment/ loving! lol. It'll make her feel a lot better.
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She seems to be quite alright if I see her in her underwear. I have asked and told her that I would find her sexy and completely irrisitable. She got quite upset and told me that she liked the fact that I think she is beautiful, but she just could not bring herself to be exposed to me.
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it's not too unusual for young adults to be sexually active but still shy. Don't sweat it, it sounds normal.
