my boyfriend is a somewhat adventurous guy. I on the otherhand, would describe myself as quiet and shy... Somehow we get along quite well though... Until the subject of clubs comes up. He insists that I come with him to some of the local clubs, but I would rather neither of us go. I must say that I have never been, but I don't necessarily hold a high opinion of the people around here that go to them. Being somewhat of a jealous and worrysome girlfriend, I worry that when he gets there, knowing that he will drink, that he'll be dancing with some random whorey girl who will try and get all over him. I trust him and know that he loves me, but here is my question. Should I go with him, though at this point in time I know I would not have fun... Or do I continue to stay at home and worry all the time? :confused:
It's not fair of you to hold your BF back if he likes to go. I'm sure you guys can compromise, but how do you know it's that bad if you have never gone to one of these clubs?
Well if i were you i would go with him, instead of sitting at home paranoid about what he could get up to - you never know you might enjoy it, and if not at least you can make an informed decision whether to go again or not!
Get a taste of Old Time Religion..........lick a witch grin<br />
i didnt think i'd like any club scene, i had a negative opinion on it all, but now i've been to some good clubs with good friends and had the most fun time ever.
i really reccomend going to a club (pref one that plays your type of music) just to try it. dancing is so fun with the right people, especially with your bf / gf!!
its not fair to not let him go, i'm sure you already see that, but its not fair for you to sit at home and worry about him all night...
maybe one friday night you both go clubbing, and the next friday you both grab a movie and curl up infront of the tv or similar?
afterall, aren't relationships about sacrafice? (hmm that doesnt sound too good does it?)
I never thourght i'd enjoy clubbing when i first went but its great. Its strangely easy to just get on with it and enjoy yaself, i dont really drink but i can quite easliy dance in a club without drinking and not being self consious whatsoever. But you really wont know if you like it or not until you tried it!