Hi i am new i got a question for the guys

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i want to have a break from masturbating but i cant bring myself not to do it i have about three a day and i wanna stop for a couple of days but i cant

will power- just cut down the amount of times you do it.

why?I say more is better.Kidding aside, you have control over your own actions (mostly).

Yeah, I agree with Dean and Unsupervised. It all boils down to a decision to do it or not do it...which is more difficult than it sounds.The only thing I could add is to go beyond thinking "how can I not jack off". And start thinking about the things that lead up to that decision. If you consciously cut out things that are causing stimulation (what you watch, dwell on, et.) it'll be a bit easier.

It is hard...trust me i used to be the same, but i just told myself to stop doing it so much. I am happier

I think what were forgetttin to ask is how old he is. cuz cmon guys u all remember how it was when we were younger. Had to do it all the time and we couldnt cut back. But it is also tru u have to have will power, its just harder when ur younger.

Good point. It's possible at any age, but I have to admit - as difficult as it is for me now - it would have been a heckuva lot more difficult when I was a teenager.But you can do it!

I think you'll find that the older you get the less you jerk off and you wont want to jerk off as much as you did when you're younger.I'm guessing you're only starting off. When i started jacking off, i was doing it about 3/4 times a day but now that i'm older i probably only do every 3 to 4 days. Dont get me wrong the urge is still there but somehow i'm able to put it aside for the time being. I find its better if you hold off for a few days anyhow. Better, more intense wank.You'll probably find the older you get the more will power you'll have to do it less often.

Try to always have something to do so you can keep your mind off of it.

people are so lucky (especially women) that they can masturbate with it "feeling" good, ...I cant seem to get in the "mood".....oh poop

just continue jacking! cos masterbating is not bad at all. it's actually healthy to do it. so go to your room and whip out some porn and start jacking right now! ....damn it!

im trying to quit too,but i cant explain how to,i fall sometimes and do it,but i can go 3 days

At the end of the day just do it. You're not hurting anyone and it's not hurting you.Everyone does it and it feels good....So why stop.You'll carry on doing it all through your life even if you've got a girlfriend or boyfriend which ever the case may be. Just be happy and don't let it get you down. It's only natural after all.

why quit? just to prove your not a slave at it

Run away Cmar! Run away from these guys as fast as you can!Seriously...you can do it. If it's something you feel like you need or want to do, who are we to tell you not to. It can be done.You gotta know who to and who not to listen to.

Well i agree w/ aTa7. I gave my younger cuz some words on masturbation and he told me he does it five times a day and just keeps a sock in the front of his underwear. I said "holy shit i have to try that" lol