that may be a stupid question, but how do you make the muscles around the vagina relax? with my bf we are trying to have sex, but he cannot get it as my muscles are so tight. We do foreplay a lot and have good lubrication...Should i get drunk?
Question on vagina relaxation
Don't get drunk. You just have to learn to relax (in you mind). Don't get frustrated or think that it won't be able to happen. It just takes practice.
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This worked for me - hold off on penetration for awhile (weeks or months) and just have him enter you manually (eg a finger then 2). Your vagina has to get used to the idea of having someone in there . Then you can move on to penetration... but be warned its going to hurt the first few times (it did for me). Your vagina will get used to it and it won't hurt after awhile.