Seeing the EX

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So i'm going to a party this weekend, it'll be the first time i've seen my old gf since she broke up with me... I'm not to sure what to expect, on one hand i'll be happy to see her again, on the other hand i have my broken heart... I'll probably just end up talking to her sayin some shit thats been on my mind.. but i was just wondering if anyone else has been in this typ of situation before?

it sucks at first, dude. Just don't do what I did, I tried to kill him. (really,really bad idea)

nah i'm pretty mellow... kinda old school romantic in a way...a few of my friends would like to kick her ass, but i wouldn't let that happen...it'll be an intresting night

I'd say try to avoid her...until you feel comfortable as friends, don't overdue it, and if you feel mad at her, walk away, get your attention on something else, like Music...or something that won't make u think of her...

Well, last weekend I got drunk. Mainly because I was going to see my best friend who I got in a fight with and that was the first time we would see each other since the incident.

Not much was said about what happened, except I apologized. She just said I don't need to apologize because I was just telling her how I felt. I dunno, it's been really awkward still.

DO NOT AVOID HER, TALK TO HER LIKE UR A FRIEND, DO NOTHING ELSE, DONT SAY I MISS U BLA BLA BLA, SHOW HER WHOS THE BOSS, DONT PAY ANY SPECIAL ATTENTION TO HER, YET TALK NORMALY, IF SHE WANTS TO GET BACK YOU WILL SEE IT BY BODY LANGUAGE, I HAD THIS SITUATION WE GOT BACK TOGETHER AND AT THE PARTY WE WERE MAKING OUT ALREADY LOL

Yeah man i wasn't planning on trying to hook up with her again, in gf bf sense, my friends would disown me.... i just want to get a piece... but yeah i'll play it by body language

Good, don't hook up with her. One major heartbreak by one person is bad enough.

she`s your ex right!?!!

then your broken heart shouldnt be broken anymore. IF your still thinking about her like that, then your putting yourself in a terrible position. you must get rid of that "broken heart" and start messing with other girls.

I see one of my ex's everyday at school and he like, gauks at me, i've changed alot since we dated... so i dunno if he is just like wow or wtf... i hate it

maybe he just wants to talk to ya...?

Revenge, my friend, revenge! Play her like she played you. Butter her up with compliments and then go in for the kill. Afterwards, you will feel so good. Never walk away from someone who has wronged you.

Revenge is the path to making yourself no better than the person that did damage to you.

Agree .... but somtimes you can't become someone's doormat where they would walk all over you.Ahh, what the heck, forgive and forget!

forgive, don't forget

haha yeah for real man, she knows what she did and she has to live with her self... my other chick friends wanted to fight her, but whats the point??And i was talking to her last night, and she tells me she misses me... Girls are great with mind games thats all i have to say

In reply to: Girls are great with mind games thats all i have to say Two can play that game Not recommended though, cuz I think it's just low.

It just gets you into deeper shit. Guys are pretty good at it too.

Yeah, some of us are. Playing mind games is mean.

Especially when the recieving party's already contemplating suicide. :frowning: