Well, its my friends b-day in about 2 minutes, and she was online about 50 minutes ago. When she logged on, I did nothing, I was hoping to only say something at exactly midnight. Well, I couldn't wait, so I sent her a quick message asking "Guess what I'm eating?" after about a minute she replied, "so?"I said, "guess", and she replied "I don't care" Well, she took a little while to reply this, so by the time she did I had already said the answer.Noticing that she was being a bit aggresive towards me, I also started to get a bit cheesed off. "Why are you telling me?" she said.My (probably unneccesary) anger started to rise and I replied, "its called a conversation, often started by useless crap which develops into a more advanced stage. But who cares about that!"Well, a few seconds later she replies, "Night"I say"Night" and she logs off.Why the fuck did this get me so angry and why was she so aggressive towards me? OK, maybe something else had annoyed her and she was just a bit emotional or something, or maybe I interupted her during something important. But why do I feel like I should be apologising!?!? I didn't do anything wrong, atleast not intentionally!!
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Short, Sweet and Pissing me off!!!
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Well, she was there so I talked to her. She has school in the morning so she is probably asleep now, or trying and I am not going to disturb her on top of everything else that I have/haven't done.
It was just the timing of everything that was said, it just screamed "piss off!!!"
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OK, I talked to her, she was just having a bad day and I popped in at the wrong place and the wrong time. But all is better.... for now!!!
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maybe she really didn't care what u were eating...i mean it's not a very good conversation starter unless there's an inside joke behind it. I get annoyed with my friends when they ask me stupid questions, especially if I'm not in a good mood to begin with.
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Well, yeah, it was a private joke. She loves the thing that I was eating, so I suppose that it wouldn't have made her very happy knowing that though... egh, I always screw things up with her, I don't know why she doesn't just block me.
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In reply to:
I don't know why she doesn't just block me.
cuz she likes u..
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I don't see why though. (Prepare yourself for a self-pity speech)
For the first few weeks that we knew each other, we never talked, then I asked her out, she said no, but we became really really really close friends. We became very physical with each other, which became a very bad thing because she has a boyfriend (sorta, an online guy that she has never met but I think she loves, who said that he didn't have a problem with her being close to me, even going out with me)(he is a VERY nice guy), and we stopped. Well, she stopped.
I know that I have bitched about this before, but this is where I become a prick.
Every time we went places I wouldn't talk, I became depressed. When we talked online I constantly mentioned how I missed being close to her, and how I missed feeling her. When we were alone together I tried to get the closeness back and was constantly denied. Eventually it has come to a point where she doesn't trust to be alone with me anymore. I still can't look at her and my heart sinks as I think of everytime that I have felt her stomach, run my hands along her back, kissed her neck... I have almost cried over her. And because this is always on my mind I get angry for no reason, I have tried to move on, it just doesn't work. Nothing can distract me from thinking about her!
Anyway, I get very emotional when I talk to her and we rarely end conversations on a good not. So I just don't see why she puts up with me, why does she still try when I am so annoying!?!
Wow, another record setting vent...
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You should be blocking her. Not her blocking you. You'll never get over someone you keep speaking to.
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Unfortunately if you have SPRINT or a SAMSUNG cell phone, you can't block anyone from calling you!!! Isn't that shit?? These people can continue to call you and you can't do anything about it!!! But you can block yourself from calling them??? WTF!!! Fuck Sprint and Samsung!! I really would love to block this guy's phone number so I can move on and don't ever have to worry about him wanting to call me (if) when he feels like it. It's been about two weeks since he called me and if he knows what's good for him, he better not call me again. Ever. Ass. Yeah, anyways, if you don't block the number, you can't move on....you'll only be torturing yourself....
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I am in same situation as you. I was gonna get away from her, but I talked with her and she apologized for all she did and her friends told me she was having problems. I have stuck by her and care a great deal about her. we once had each other blocked but we talk, and yeah AIM, MSN, YIM talks usually are good, but can get real screwy. If you wanna get over her stop talking to her and it will go away. If you wann be with her, roll up your socks and tuck in your rocks. You just gotta do it.
okay to respond to your latest post. She is putting up with your for a multitude of reasons, but i only see two. She is probably a very sweet girl and she still on some level likes you. What you need to do is to chill the fuck out. When you feel angry just remember that you care about her (even though it is your care for her that is causing you to get frustrated, hence, angry). SO just remember that is her that makes you happy. Explain to her why you get angry. And from the sound of it sounds like yo uare gonna be friends, sorry, but that could change. I showed change and things are changing. Change to show that you are a better person. Just gotta ride it out.
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Thanks, I'm definately gonna take your advice. Thanks again, and sorry to all those who use SPRINT.... :grin: