Well, I'm in the beginning stages of counseling in hopes that I can improve what I consider a "personality problem". I believe there are many dishonest and ungenuine people and very few real people in this world. In my case, I feel like no one is interested in getting to really know me. To guys, they only want to sleep with me. To girls, they are jealous of me and try to make feel bad about myself. I realize that this has made me a very sarcastic, lonely, cynical and difficult person. I can't trust anyone. I also realize that this is a horrible way to live my life. This is why I'm stuck in my room, typing on a message board on a Friday night, while my roommate is getting ready to go out because she doesn't have this problem. I've never had anything tragic happen to me when I was a child, so I don't know why this is such a big problem. I don't really know what advice anyone can give me, but I just needed to get this out. Thank you.
Why Is It So Hard For Me??
It seems everything in life has its ups and downs. Yin yang if you will. Being attractive is no exception.
From your posts, it seems if you were on the site hotornot, you'd probably score above an 8 on the 1-10 scale. On the upside, you could probably have most guys that put good looks on the agenda. The downside, you have to root out the shallow hals and the players... and it's hard to tell the difference between them.
My advice, get yourself a nerd. :wink: We know how to appreciate a woman.
I think nerds are cute!! :wink:
I'm a nerd!!!! I'm a nerd!!!!!
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I used to have the same problem...well I sorta do now too, but I try not to overanalyze myself. Sure you want to grow and get help which is completely awesome, but maybe you just think about things too much. Focus on having fun and going with the flow...i'm coming to realize I don't want to be as serious with guys as I thought I did. I feel much comfortable flirting and chilling with other guys without jealousy. It's a terrible thing.
People come, people go.