I'm a virgin, although I've had dry sex and been fingered. Today, right after being fingered, my vagina swelled up. I mean REALLY swollen. It was painful and red. There were no sores or anything, but my (vulva?) became inflammed. (only the right side) It's almost back to normal now, but still a little swollen. I've never heard of this happening before, and the symptoms dont really match any of the STD's, but what happened and why? Anyone??
Do I Have one? Help?
Maybe the guy didn't wash his hands? I've never really had that. Or tell him to cut his fingernails...
He was kinda rough, and It may just be that the skin was really irritated. But it just became so inflammed, it scared me. It's totally gone now, but I've never heard of anything like that before, and it scared me because it was so drastic. I mean, it looked like it was going to explode it was so swollen. When I sat down, it felt like I was sitting on a cactus. Anyways, I'm less concerned because it returned to normal, but should I get tested anyways?
i'm pretty sure it was because he was rough. one time i had sex and just went on for too long and got too dry. omg i swelled up like a plum! it looked really bad and scary, it hurt, it was awful. just like you described, looked like it was gonna explode! went away by the next day, and everything was fine.
The swelling and redness you have could totally be the result of the stimulation. You could be one of those people who are very sensitive and the immune response is going 'owww'. That sends the impulse for the redness and swelling. Some people with the same amount of stimulation may not swell and be red that way, but your tissues might just be more sensitive.
Did it go away??
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yeah, everythings back to normal. I think it was just too rough. It scared the hell outta me though.