Well you see about 2 weeks ago I met this girl on vacation(it was my mom's friend's niece) yeah and well we made out about 4 days in a row down there and you know I decided I liked her a lil bit. So then last Friday I go to visit her and she gave me a blow job...the weird thing was it was the first one she has ever gave..so she isn't a slut..but sort of comes of as being one but she says that I'm her ideal guy to be with but we can't be together because of the long distance crap..she lives like 120 miles away... anyways though I was wondering what you guys would think if I were to fuck her just for the experience...See I know sex should be special but..I want to be good at it so I can fuck the hell out of someone I love when the time is right... am I just dumb for saying that or not? She is a virgin and I am a virgin...and well I guarentee I will eventually be offered sex from her. I'm 17 and she's 16. I'm a year and 6 months older than her.
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Having Sex
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hey im also 17.umi would doit if she is willing it seems all goodi know ur going to be screamed at bysome people on this thread but i would (ps im still a V also but it sounds like u guys are both ready for it and want it
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I'm not going to "scream at you," but I am going to suggest that you give some thought to this. 120 miles is not that far for a relationship if you really feel something special for this girl. To have sex with her "for experience" I feel is wrong and using her. I'm not saying that you hold off on sex until you are married, but I do think you should wait for someone special. You only lose your viginity once and having it be with someone you love will make it all the more special to remember. That's my 2 cents worth.
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I agree. Virginity is something that can either be worthless or priceless depending on the person in question. 120 miles really isn't that far though. Having sex for experience seems very dumb to me, but if you and her feel you two are ready to lose your virginity to each other just make sure you have protection and go slow. That would be my two cents as well.
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Saying that is not dumb, but acting on it is dumb, selfish and immature (not this argument again). If she offers you sex, ask her why she thinks that she is ready. If she says that she just wants to do you, then yeah, maybe, but if she says she wants to have sex with you because she has feelings for you, "love" like feelings, then you would be the biggest prick in the world for taking away something that was supposed to be special for her, just because you want the practise.
Good Luck :grin:
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the teen years are a magical time of sexual awakening and experimentation. it should be embrased. I miss those days dearly.If you do it, make sure you're both on the same page about what you expect for both your futures. Don't use her, but you can use each other.
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In reply to: the weird thing was it was the first one she has ever gave..so she isn't a slut..but sort of comes of as being one but she says that I'm her ideal guy to be with but we can't be together because of the long distance crap and if you believe that, then i can sell you some wicked swamp land in florida
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Well if shes a virgin and yor a virgin, only do it if you guys are both ready. If shes ready and you just want to sleep with her for experince, then I agree with bobbolicouis (did I spell that right lol), then you would be the biggest prick on earth.
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yeah do not be a prick and do that. I know a good friend of mine had that happen to her and she always tells me shen envies me for being a virgin. So, just be a good guy and put her first in this situation.
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Yeah, I agree with the others. You seem to be making a decision for yourself and have at least thought about it a bit. But don't make that decision for her. If she is a virgin, her first experience should be with someone she is in a relationship with, out of love. Not with someone who is just looking for the experience. Find a floozy and get it on with her.If you really like the girl and it's mutual, start dating, get married, and then have sex.
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well start dating, then have sex when time is right. Doesn't neccessarily have to be marriage.
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... Find a floozy and get it on with her...
For all anyone here know she probly is a floozy who just wants to conquer this poor guy who is so diligently holding his "V-card".
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I'm getting a Platinum V-Card
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Hey when I play poker, against people with wives, I always say I have the best hand because no one else has the V-Card. HAHAHA
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my v-card was denied and cut up in front of everyone.
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hahahaha...it was at a French restaurant, huh?They seem to do that, but as long as you are still in the V-club you can get a new V-card.
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What if you lost your v-card in Amsterdamn or something, can you get it replaced?
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nope not a member....
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lol. Okay, I was wrong about you. That was funny.
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I seem to make up for my bad jokes.
