lol, i like all these little quotes refering to "its not the size its how you use it."
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Im VERY insecure about my male size(for the girls)
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thats sweet, i prefer little guys.if you have read the forum about boobs then you will notice that girls have insecurities about their size too.it works in both ways and we all have our preferences but then again my friend who is a girl is quite big and she is about a 38AA and shes a really nice person so boys like her so really you shouldnt worri!
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In reply to: I can hear honest assurances all day long from well-meaning girls Hey i am not a girl (im older than a girl lol), nor well meaning - I am talking from experience - us girls don't give a fuck about the size of it - or at least the 'normal' women don't.......i think what people are trying to say is that if the women don't care, why should you, unless you care what the guys think, then hey it doens't look like they give a shit either laffin Everyone hates or worries about something about themselves.............try worrying about something you can do something about cos you can't make it any bigger if your not happy with it!
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Okay, I understand that. REally I do. And I really appreciate you saying it. It's good to hear that often.But this is what I'm saying: Sometimes (at least with me) my feelings over penis size is tied up in so much more than just dicks and sex and that sort of thing. It's about self-image. And self loathing isn't just a product of a small dick. IT's a product of years of crap that doesn't go away quickly...if ever. And having a small penis is just another part of that. So you see, it's not something that all of these "size doesn't matter" phrases (even though they might be true) can do away with.I hope that's clear.
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AdamFox, why not start a new thread in another section and tell us about the years of crap.
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Are you being serious Ineligible, or are you trying in a nice way to tell me that I'm off topic or something?I'm just not sure. Sorry.
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No, sorry, I didn't say it clearly. What I'm reading from what you said is that your insecurity about your penis size is part of a general lack of confidence brought about by earlier bad experiences, so I'm suggesting you might like to tell us more about those bad experiences. (I would like to hear about them.) But I'm assuming (perhaps wrongly) that that would be more general and wouldn't fit this particular forum, so a new thread in a different section would feel more comfortable.
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Thanks for clarifying that. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't out of line or anything. That might make interesting thread. How past experiences effects your self-image, particularly around sexuality. Maybe when I get a chance I'll start one.
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Hey bud, I can relate and if you start that thread, I'll join in.