I have had no luck with girls!!! HELP!!!

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I hate this...I am 15, Male and I still havent gone out with anyone...I mean i have asked someone, but got turned down :frowning:
But i guess it might be because I am just afraid that I will get turned down again and I might get hurt...well not really hurt, but you know what I mean...I would just not want to know that the answer is no and still be good friends with the person...I also think that she would look at me differently rather than the normal "friend" you know...like she doesnt like me but she feels bad...I just dont know what to do in my situation. :frowning:

Yeah, it is a very weird thing to be good friends with someone you like, and she knows that you like her. And the fear of being rejected is also normal. But, get over it, as everyone does. Yes, the answer may be no, so what? Its just as likely that she might say yes.

And by the way, this is the wrong place to be posting this.

oh yea...i guess this should be in the sex forum...huh

would not worry about it. Okay if you ever notice you are becoming friends with someone you care about more than friends, tell her/him immediately and tell her/him that you want to go out. IF she/he says no, then end it. that is what i did and my life is so simple. I notice girls that i have seen before but my mind was focused on someone else. So suck it up and do it. Only way to go.

Well.. Im 17... Yet to have a girl friend.... I gave up on girls... Im a fag now.. Oh well.. Shit happens

no the girl i asked out isnt a whore at all...she is actually a good friend of mine still...

That is the worst kind of whore!!!!

wow thats real nice...

i actually really do love this girl now...she is my next door neighbor and no i have never seen her neked...but she is hot as hell and i wish she was my gf...she is like 3 months younger than me and if i get laid in the process...why not??

Alright you're 15 I really doubt that you're in love with any one.But I have this kind of relationship with someone at the moment as well, but even though she said no the first time I asked her out that doesn't mean that I stopped trying to build a better relationship than just freinds. The key is don't come on too strong and act like she is you're complete obsession. and also be sweet and do nice things for her when the time is right.The girl might come around and see what she is missing or you might not ever have a relationship beyond freinds, but you have to at least try.

Don't worry. I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend before, so you being 15 is nothing, boo. Just give it time. Even though 20 is hella old to be by yourself, I still hold out hope that I will find that special someone.

first of all...i dont really like the girl i used to like anymore...and second...i do in fact love her...you think someone cant love someone else because you think I dont know what true love is...I can tell you one thing...I know what hate is...its my parents getting a divorce when I'm 9 and not really explaining to me why...its my dad never being around early on in my life...its my family that never can even talk to eachother because my dad hurt my mom...Its the fact that my dad neglects me for half of my life and then comes back and thinks he can tell me what to do!!! I know hate...so i know love...

In reply to: Alright you're 15 I really doubt that you're in love with any one. Just because he's 15 doesn't mean he doens't know what love is. Love knows no age.As for your question col sanders2 I say give it sometime. Talk to her, ask her how she feels about you. If she only wants to be friends, well thats better than nothing but if you think that you might get hurt in the end, I say end your relationship with her. She's not worth getting your heart broken over. Good luck ^_^

thanks...Still dont know what i'm going to do...but at least now i have some options to chose from. :smile:

I cant just end my relationship with her...she is my next door neighbor and also a really good friend...And she has a nice ass...oops...sorry i just let my mind wander a bit...I dont know if she would really hurt me...she might tell her friend who is my other next door neighbor and then my other next door neighbor would tell the person I likes brother's and then It might get anoying...oh well...i will just bite the bullet and ask her...im not that good about starting to talk about things like that...I have known her for like 6 years and I have tried to ask her many times...but I open my mouth to say it and nothing comes out...

wait a minute...why did you say this is the wrong place to be posting this???It is in the relationships section...GRRRRRR!!!You confused me...

new idea on how to tell her i like her...i am having surgery 2 days from now and right before i pass out i can call her up and tell her i like her...then I wont have to know if she likes me or not for a while and I have a chance i can die durring surgery...hehe...jk lol...but not really...i can really die...

Good luck with your surgery, and don't worry, I never had a GF and I am 18...

Take it from me....I have had allot of friends that are girls. I have watched them grow up and get married, never really knowing what we could've had because I never asked them out. I was afraid at the time I would lose them as a friend if I did. If I had the chance to do it over again I guess I would ask them out. I tell them now that I had a crush on them, and they always say "why didnt you tell me". My best friend of 12 years now is a girl, We have never done anything sexually but,I told her I want a relationship. Nothing has changed between us (unfortunately for me) but I know, that she knows. And that makes me feel better at least. She was uncomfortable with doing some of the things ie. movies, dinner just the two of us,(you get the point), we used to do. Probably looking at them as more of a date now then just hanging out.But everyone is used to seeing us together anyway that it didnt affect our day-to-day intreaction, hanging out with friends or alone together. hope this helps.

In reply to: I almost had a psychic girlfriend but she left me before we met.... WHAT???left you before you met???How??