Me and my girlfriend had been dating for 1.5 years and recently we broke up. We broke up because I kissed another girl while drunk and then a few days later in revenge she kissed a guy when she was drunk. Now she thinks she likes this other guy but still tells me that she loves me and wants to be with me in time, but not now. She says she doesn't want to lose me but she doesn't want a serious relationship now, and then she goes off and starts dating another guy. (the one she kissed) She still calls and crys and says shes sorry and all this other stuff, she just tells me that she wants to see how it is in a different type of relationship... what should I do??
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Well first of all it's your fault for kissing this other girl. I don't care if you were drunk or not. You shouldn't have done it.
I'm gonna bet that you've been saying the same things to her as well. The difference here is that she has another guy - you don't have another girl.
This means she knows that she can string you along, and have someone caring to make them feel better, whilst having rampant hot sex with this other guy. Essentially you'll be turned into a cuddle bitch and it'll be really really sucky.
Tell her it's either you only or nothing at all. If she chooses nothing at all, she was never worth the effort in the first place.
I'm sorry, but if she really and truely loved you she wouldn't be with this other guy. She is stringing you along, and if you're not careful you'll get burned because you're playing with fire my friend. You need to tell her that either she is with you or she's not, because you're not going to be dangled on a string. It's not fair to you, her or even the guy she's with right now. Good luck, I wish you the best ^_^
<span style="font-style: italic">things we've learned from the movies - - when they're alone, all foreigners prefer to speak English to each other....
dump that bitch!!
As long as she doesnt opnly want you...hehe
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." -- Theodor Seuss Geisel <br /><br />
afraid i have to agree with that one!
Get a taste of Old Time Religion..........lick a witch grin<br />
yeah it is sad, but it is sad but true.
I had a similar expirense, once, it sucks but they are right. remember its got to end badly or it dosent end.
Drink 'till she's cute, but stop before the wedding!!