What do ya do when you and your lady have been wit eachother awhile n u guys r talkin abt doin stuff n u do stuff but she wont? cuz rite now i can do oral on my woman but she wont even touch me back. i think it's unfair. wen i try to talk to her abt it she gets mad at me cuz she says she iz scared but i tell her there is nuttin to be scared of. it takes her 4ever to be ok with stuff n i think she just lacks the curage to do stuff.we been together a long time and thru lots of it i've been the one in charge of momentum here. it's gettin old fast and frankly i dunno if shes rite for me cuz it's not da fact she wont do sumthing... iz da fact she wont talk to me either. shes so stubborn it pisses me off.i need advise!
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Wut shud i do
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advise?? next time post in English.
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I think you need to have a serious talk. There might be all sorts of reasons why she is inhibited. She may have had an experience of rape or something in her past. She may have religious objections. Or she may just be a very cautious person. Whatever it is, it's not likely to change quickly.