heh... these are really hard to ask...But here goes anyway...First and foremost... Can i come without realizing it?For the second time last night i was "Playing" with my girlfriend, she reached down and started playing with me down there... only to say "I think you came"I sat there stunned knowing i hadn't... but it was wet and sticky down there.Is it just alot of sweat? or did i come without knowing it?Secondly... and most embarassingly. I can never get her to "finish" she starts panting really hard and hip thrusting, and then she just stops, and says it's ok...Whether i'm eatting her out, or jerking her off, or whatever else i feel bad because she never finishes...Advice?Finally... This one for my girlfriend more than me, we are both virgin, and she is worried it's going to hurt, Is this just an urban myth or is it going to hurt her? if so how badly?Please be nice, and remember that i'm really new to this so please be as informative as possible
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For the first one, its just precum, don't worry its normal, you will know when you come.Second, just keep going, try different things, think about if you were a girl, what would you like.And third, yes, it will hurt. So be careful, just go slow, if she really is a virging you will have to break through the hymen and it will hurt.
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- It sounds like pre cum2. The female orgasm is complicated. The slightest change in rythm, direction, or speed can cause her to go from about to cum, back to getting warmed up again. You should ask her is there something you are doing wrong, or if she stops herself.3. I personally dont know, but I heard everything from extremely painful, to only a little discomfort, to no pain at all.
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1. Thanks, i thought so, wanted to make sure :smile:
2. blah, to many parts :wink: all in good time i guess...
3. Hmm.. makes me want to wait, She's a small person and she's Really tight, I'm 7.5 is it really safe if she's a really tight person? or should we just take it slow and use our own discretion?
Thanks again guys...
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Use lube. But to be honest you really can't say. I'm going on 7, first sex for me was with my 16/17 year old gf who was a virgin. She's only about 5"4' ish, maybe a bit less, and it didn't hurt her at all.But she'd already lost her hymen, well we didn't know that then, but remembering what she looked like she obviously had, plus she'd done all the things that usually tear is; horseriding, trampolining, tampons etc.Go down on your g/f and see if she has hers.
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If it's her first time, and she is nervous and worried it might hurt, nervousness will almost certainly make her tight. You certainly would want to take it slowly.
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It doesn't matter how tall the girl is, or how big she is, the vagina has nothing to do with that. My first time it didn't really hurt that much at all. I could feel a little discomfort at first, then like 15 seconds later we were fine, everyone's different though. About her finishing... just make sure you don't change what you're doing, the speeds and pressures, keep it constant if it's working, and it should get there!