Ok here it goes... i have my first real boyfriend to me... and my moods change drastically when im with him... like bipolar like... but with no one else. It's wierd and I have no idea why... when Im with him some bad things come up with him cuz im comfortable talking about them with him... like school troubles... self esteem issues <> and I just wanna know why this bipolar feeling way comes up with him... please give ur opinion
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Needs an opinion from as many as possible
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Perhaps it's because you're comfortable with him, so you don't put on your "company" mask.We have a primitive brain that is very moody, overlayered with a thinking brain that tries to be rational. Perhaps with him, you are letting the deeper brain speak more.
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When you start talking about feelings your mood can change quite easily. Try talking about relaxed topics of conversation, like something you can laugh at. The longer you're with him the more resistant you can find yourself getting away from that moody side and you can ease into a serious conversation. Just remember that he enjoys your company and you enjoy his and that is something you need to keep. So relax, have fun, and keep the serious stuff to a minimum for now.
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It's completely normal. The closer you are to someone, the more your defenses come down, hence, you swing with your natural feelings more easily. Like me, when I PMS, I only blow up at the people nearest me. Just learn to recognize and mellow the swing a bit.
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Thats how i am when i get really close to someone (a whole one time) and it really ruined things in the end. One second i would be like "i love you so much baby" and the next second i'm flipping out saying that its all crap and that i'm so stressed basically over exargerating everything in my life. Honestly I feel there is something mentally wrong with me, but i feel fine when i'm around other people. Maybe my company facade is so good that i'm retarded enough to trick myself. Who nos. I say to some extend these actions are normal. You find someone you are really close to the first time and your able to spill and show any emotion risk free. Sadly in my case their where risks I never expected. Be Careful with this but don't let it hinder your openness.
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hey ya huney.i had a girlfriend once,i told things id only tell my psychologist.so it's a natural phenomenon.enjoy it.
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I think that you should kick his shins in. Lol. That's my answer to everything. You bipolar crazy woman.
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ANd that advice helps me in a benefitical way ... how ?
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I told you what to do... kick him in the shin... it works. Got me to the front of a line before.
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You just feel more comfortable with him and feel safe revealing your troubles to him. All of us want to get to this stage of comfortness with someone in our lives, it's a great thing to have.
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Hey!!, I have my first real bf 2, weve been goin out for about a year and 4 -5 months now. i have the same thing right now. its like im happy then im not, then im happy then i cry, then i feel like an idiot for crying, so if u wanna talk about it to somone who's goin through the same thing. Case. please do not include email addresses in your posts
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It's trust I suppose. Some people are just easy to talk to... you get what I mean? It seems like there are VERY few people that I know that I feel really comfortable with. There's people I cna talk to easily, but still can't talk about really deep issues with. I can easily talk to my boyfriend about anything. He's my best friend. (Does a better job than my psychiatrist too) Love, Peace, Empathy,