I need help. Sometimes when i am very stressed out, or if my mind is wandering, certain thoughts enter my mind. It is the same thing every time, and it really bothers me. It is not something i want to happen, in fact it is the opposite, it is something that i would under no circumstances ever allow to happen. The thing itself is irrelovant to this post, but the point is, lately i have been unable to stop myself from thinking about this thing, usually during masterbation. If anyone has any ideas of how i can prevent my mind from forcing this image into my "mental eye" i would appreciate it a lot, thanks </font color>
If its just a fantasy its normal. If its a harmful fantasy its ok as long as you don't act it out. Don't stress over this lol, many people have random fantasies. One of mine is to be well "taken control of" in kinder terms, but you know what I mean...no not domination.
I may or may not have those thoughts all or some of the time. Infact sometimes I always think that but, frequently, it's rarely on my mind.
I can't totally semi-relate!
<b>and there was light</b>
The more time you spent trying to think about not thinking about it the more you will think about it - so relax, thoughts are just that, thoughts, and like dreams they don't mean much - relax
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Thanks guys, your right, i just need to stop thinking about not thinking about it. Its not a fantasy persay... its more of the exact opposite of what i would want to happen, its a nightmare while awake.
Can I know what it is
I would sometimes get extremely horny after prolonged periods of masturbation or sexual excitement and it would make me do things, that afterwards would scare me. Whipping the remaining semen from my mouth and trying to undo the knots of the rope, that I used to tie my dick and balls into a painful configuration, made me think; what did I do now again and where will this ever end? It would frighten me. It seemed 'evil' and during such excitement, I would sometimes also fantasize about other things, that was even worse.
I would see or hear about things that other people would do and I would be able to identify with it, and it would give me a sickening feeling on my stomach. I have always feared, that I might do myself some serious harm or even worse, do harm to someone else. Though this has never happened and I don't believe that it ever would, I always knew that I should not ever think, that it was beyond me. This thought scared me and made me fearful of my own sexuality.
In all these things I would do, I have always found that there was three parts of me involved. First of all there was my dick and though it had a head it had no brain, and thought it would also pump, it surely had no heart either. But through all of this I have noticed that my heart and my brain has always accompanied my dick where ever I would go. After all these years, I can now say with the utmost certainty, that my intelligence and morality would never have allowed me to have done any of those things I might have fantasized about.
Male 'horniness' is something feared by woman, society and men themselves. I can surely believe, that it could have repercussions, that might not have been that persons real intended. This though seems to be rare and I don't think that it is necessarily linked directly to sex itself, but would rather show on something else, going wrong somewhere else...
I have spread my dreams under your feet. Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.