why is it that everytime im with a guy, after they cum they like hide their dick, ive never seen a flacid dick before. are they embarassed?? whats the big deal?!
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Whyyyy
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If you want to see one just ask! Well, sometimes when flacid the penis can be only an inch long! That is embarassing for some people.
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Dang! What are you guys doing to give Amanda such grief?
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Yeah!! What did we do!?!?!
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WHY IS EVERYTHING DELETED!??!
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Everything was deleted earlier this morning because it wasn't relevant to your question..it got so off topic on webcams again, etc. That stuff is fine to talk about, but please keep it in the general forum, instead of hijacking a user's thread.
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Maybe I can help with this. I've had intercourse only twice, but I've given and recieved oral and did naked genital rubbing more times than I can count. Here's my perspective.There are two reasons why I let girls see my dick when it's erect. 1)When I'm aroused, I'm sort of in the zone and not really thinking about it as much. My mind is geared less on "she sees me" and more on her body and on getting off. 2)If a girl's gonna give me a blow job, she's gonna have to see my dick. But once I start going soft, I guess I tend to cover it up too. I guess my fear is that despite how confident I am in the way the rest of me looks and how confident I am in pleasing her, there's still the part of me that fears that seeing my small dick will take away from the experience from her. I also have my fair share of shame I deal with too. So I'm more likely to stay on my stomach, stay under the covers, or put my undies back on when I'm done.And before all you wonderful people start saying things like "It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean", let me say that there's never been any complaints about the motion of ocean. But if you read my other posts, you'll know that sometimes these things just can't be explained in a way that always makes sense.But if your boyfriends are more blessed...I dunno...you'll have to ask someone more blessed. Hope that helps.
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thats kinda funny, i never really thought guys were that embarassed about their bodies, i always thought it was just the girls mostly. But honestly i can be self conscience about my body, as is im sure every 17 yr old girl is, but still when im with my guy i dont really care that much cause i think i know in the back of my mind that they like it. i never really thought a girl being naked was such a big deal until about a year ago when the guy i was with announced to some of his friends that he had me "completly naked on the table". i thought it was hysterical that it had such an impact on him, i thought it wasnt a big deal, i didnt even bother to tell my girlfriends. lol whats with that fascination anyway??
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Boobies!!!!!To get a girl naked is a challenge, and usually the reward is sex. Would you not be happy about that?
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lol but when the guy i was with said that, we didnt have sex...not even close
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Well, its also a way of becoming closer in a relationship, breaking through a barrier. Truly being with you rpartner for who they are.
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It depends on the guy of course. It's just the sudden change in size I guess - some can shrink quite a lot when flaccid.I don't care however. My gf sees it whenever and whereever, it's still the same penis - I don't see what the big deal is.I usually stay hard for a while afterwards.
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In younger days, I was with women with the same reaction. Sure, a few minutes ago we were banging like bonobo apes but when they'd get up to go pee it was all "don't look at me!!"It really is a issue of compfort with one's own body. This is something that tends to change with time, experience and the compfort you feel with your partner.