My girlfriend doesnt like me to go down on her. Ive done it twice but havent in the last couple of months. I dont get why, she is clean and everything and she is extremely pretty, is it just she doesnt like to be exposed? I knwo that she liked it when i did it the other 2 times because she came both times. Any advice?
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Oral Sex
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I guess that it isnt for everyone, or maybe she is a little bit insecure, or maybe she is very sensitive to direct clitoral stimulation and just doesnt want it, maybe you could ask her if she doesnt like it or why she doesnt like it, nothing wrong about asking questions to maximize the pleasure and happiness you can give your partner
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Yeah we talked about it and she just said that it feels really good but she just never feels like doing it. I dont really know, she doesnt give me a straight answer so I guess she really doesnt want it.
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She wants it, but she's insecure. Thats what I think. Give it to her whenever you can....because after a couple more times...she'll probably be begging you for a pussy lick.
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it's called faking, obviously you did something wrong, or she would be begging for it.
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I think IMHO that she thinks that if you give her oral sex she has to reciprocate. Now how you feel about that is up to you but to me it doesn't matter. I get more pleasure (almost ) from turning my girl on than knowing she is doing something she doesn't enjoy. But she does and loves it like a lollipop.Talk to her about how she feels and reassure her that if she doesn't want to reciprocate, it's OK. Oneday she will!!
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I relate to your girlfriend. When my bf gives me oral I like it,it feels good,he does it right, and so on and so forth, but most of the time I just don't want it. It's not a huge part of sex to me and I am very secure with myself and it's not the case of"you do me I do you" thing because I love giving my bf oral, that's actually my favorite part event. Maybe she's like me, and have to be in a certain mood, and just doesn't to much care for it. I guess it's something that I just can't really explain and my bf wonders the same thing sometimes.When i want it I'll ask and maybe she'll come around.
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does it feel better than rubbing the clit with your fingers? i think i might try to do this with my GF but never have done it before.