That is one of my biggest pet peeves!!! It drives me crazy. Guys, if you know what's good for you, call when you say you're going to, because a girl never forgets. Or better yet, say what you mean and mean what you say. If you know you're not gonna call her tomorrow, don't say you will. This one guy went to the extreme and said,"I'll call you tomorrow so I can see you before I leave town." Do you think he called or saw me? I haven't talked to him since! Why do guys play this shitty calling game?
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Never Tell A Girl You'll Call...And Then Don't!!
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In reply to:Why do guys play this shitty calling game?Because they don't want to look you in the face and hurt your feelings, and then potentially have to deal with hurt feelings. It's easier to look you in the face and lie. Or the guy may have had a change of heart. Or maybe he had an emergency.
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if they do it while knowingly lieing, then they are gutless. that's all there is to it. they want the easy way out.i'm sorry to hear you've been decieved by guys like thatthere are some guys out there that won't do that. tho they probably aren't appealing to date
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Yes, I'm not saying it's good...it's just part of the human condition. Not every guy will do that, but I'll bet many-to-most will.
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Do you really think girls are that innocent? believe me every friggin girl does that....Its like their little fingers cant find the buttons on the phone to dial. Lets just make it easy and say everyone sux. not everyone is like us where we apparently call when we say we will or keep plans or nething. There are just reliable people and unreliable, and unfortunately most people are unreliable.
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Possibly so, but in our culture, where the male is usually expectected to take the initiative, the telephoning issue usually falls to thy guy.What about when a guy calls a woman, and she makes every excuse in the world not to go out with him, other than the truth, which is that she doesn't want to go out with him?People tend to avoid confrontation.
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Yea but theres a big difference nowadays. When my mom was younger for example it would always be the guy to make the first move like you said....however now im noticing that the women are becoming VERY aggressive.....i dont like it
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I love it! How many times are you in the situation where you wonder if a woman likes you, but you're afraid to ask her, because rejection sucks? If you ask her for her number, she may give it to you to be polite. But if she asks for your number....way cool. Then if she calls you, it's great! A woman usually won't ask for your number unless she intends to call you.Sometimes it can be less initimidating to exchange e-mail addresses rather than phone numbers. But, strangely, not everyone is on the 'net.
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And you wonder why you have trouble with guys? You need to stop complaining on why guys are so fucked up! You will just push potential boyfriends away!
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lol well if u read my story about the two girls askin for my numbers....thats what i was talkin about....aggressive, especially after me bein an asshole to em. The thing that kills me is they ask for my number n then tell me to call them??!!?? wtf is that! lol
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I had an ex boyfriend who would do that. notice the ex. it was a long distance thing and he would remember to call like once a month and he would always say that he would call by the next week at the latest, but again no cigar.I have no idea why he didn't call me, but I know I put up with it becuase he was my first boyfriend and I didn't know any better.I called him as often as I could but since it was long distance my parents would get ticked off if it went over five minutes. so yeah.guys, don't do it. it's stupid.
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my bf always says he'll call me back in 15 minutes... never does! Pisses me right off i always say "Wow that was a long fucking 15 minutes" 3 hours later...
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Hey!! I thought you were suppose to vent and complain on message boards?? And I still can't stand when guys say they are going to call, and then don't. That's annoying...
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Has anyone here read "Death a Sellsman?" One of the things Willy told hs kids when they were growing up was to never make a woman a promise!
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I hate it when guys say they'll call and never do! It pisses me off more than anything! I had an ex who would tell me all the figgin time that he'd call me and he never did. You want to know what his excuse was for not calling? "Oh I'm sorry honey, you know I've got a terrible memory" Terrible memory?!? Ha! He could remember to call his buddies and everyone else and their damn dog but his girlfriend? Hell no, he had a bad memory when it came to me.... I'd prefer a person would tell me to my face if they didn't want to talk to me becuase that would hurt less than having them lie to me.
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There's a difference between a b.f. who doesn't call (passive aggressive?), and someone you just meet who says he'll call and then doesn't (cowardly?).
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In reply to: Has anyone here read "Death a Sellsman?" One of the things Willy told hs kids when they were growing up was to never make a woman a promise! lol thats what you got out of that play?haha well done. i studied that play a few years ago, can't remember a thing (except its called 'death of a salesman'.. not sellsman :P)