Lesbian Guide

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OK first off, I'm a writer hense the question and second, while this is a straight off question, I'm interested but I know it isn't just about this.

My question is, when two girls fall in love or looking for love how is a relationship described and they want to go the next step, how is it done? IE sex. In steps, how to you go from seduction to passion to love, to sex.

So I need a guide pretty much.

Maybe someone could help me out? Or if therer's a book on lesbian dating someone could suggest which could tell me the whole atmosphere of the dating world and the world of sex which goes into details (both)

Thanks alot.

You're writer?

If you stacked up all the literature on the subject, it'd probably reach the moon. In bookstores, libraries and the Web, lots of self-help books, how-to manuals, fiction, etc.

Now, your interest is strictly for your craft, and not prurient in any way, I presume?

Girls can't have sex with each other.

lmfao

ummm...yes, we can.

and in answer to the original question...same way as hetero couples do. the 'steps' are the same, just 2 women instead of a woman and a man.

Except you don't do it the same way normal people do, because there's no penis invloved. Sex is between a man and a woman, penis and vagina, and that's it. Then there's anal, but there's still a penis involved.

Thats just stupid, you're saying that lesbians can't have sex?

In reply to: Except you don't do it the same way normal people do, because there's no penis invloved. Sex is between a man and a woman, penis and vagina, and that's it. Then there's anal, but there's still a penis involved. you are defining coitus, not sex.

Look at a dictionary... Sexual intercourse's definition is coitus.

There are two definitions really. 1. Coitus between humans. 2. Sexual union between humans involving genital contact other than vaginal penetration by the penis.

sexual intercoursen. 1. Coitus between humans. 2. Sexual union between humans involving genital contact other than vaginal penetration by the penis.

cross post

No, you're just copying me hoping to get all the credit! Argh...

i would love to copy you, but i'm too distraught to learn that i'm not having sex!

Yes, that can be quite a shock. Its like walking up a flight of stairs and then realising you don't have legs.

so how do i break this to my gf?

In reply to:Then there's anal, but there's still a penis involved. ohhhh... so male gay sex is real sex, because there's a penis. sorry i didn't get it at first.

In reply to:so how do i break this to my gf? Well, you could start by telling her that atleast she won't get pregnant! Start with some happy news, then explain that there are some surgerys that you can have to add a penis to the relationship.

In reply to: there are some surgerys that you can have to add a penis to the relationship. uh, thanks, but i think we will just continue having fabulous 'not sex'.